"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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My First Poll! SoSuave census, please take part

Which of these is most similar to you?

  • I'm a Master DJ, and take my pick from the hotties that endlessly throw themselves at me

    Votes: 13 6.3%

  • I'm no Jedi, but I do better with women than most guys I know.

    Votes: 86 41.7%

  • I get girls ok, but they often lose interest

    Votes: 57 27.7%

  • There's this one girl I want and it's killing me. She also seems to prefer her abusive ex

    Votes: 3 1.5%

  • I kissed a girl once, but otherwise nothing.

    Votes: 15 7.3%

  • I've never even kissed a girl

    Votes: 21 10.2%

  • I am a troll

    Votes: 11 5.3%
  • Total voters
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Quick poll - which of these guys do you consider closest to yourself?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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There's been discussion that this place is full of AFCnewbies and all the senior DJs, ones that had actually done it with a woman, had left.

I think it would be helpful to find out what percentage of people posting here are worth listening to.

Also, if anyone started here as one option, and changed to another because of this site, I'd be curious about that too.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i slightly agree with what you said...like i stated in the topic i created...it's been close to a year since i last posted here. But i'm back in need of 3rd party opinions. i could get into details of what i was prior to this website if you wanted.
 
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I got my pick in college. I just decided against going after a girl that was pretty good looking because she was a pretty boring girl to talk to.

She just did not match my personality at all. I got three others in my pocket though.

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So who is the only other person that voted for the first option?

Hmm, so half of the people here have never even kissed a girl. I've been here a while, under this ID and another, and I'm sure the ratio would have been very different a couple of years ago.

Anyway, bumped for more data.
 
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so now besides beign virgins, i find out that half fo sosuave HASNT KISSED A GIRL YET???? oh yea, but that 1/2 of sosuave loves to flame on me for being very successful.......im laughing so ****ing hard right now!
 
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I'm seriously working towards talking to a girl :whistle:

I'm a #7 I think, maybe 6, but I have no balls. I blew so many opportunities before it's scary. If I fvcked every girl that threw herself at me, I'd be with 80 women so far.. Problem was a fvcked up childhood I think. Plus I had gynecomastia ever since I remembered myself. Plus in last two years I become a little fat..... In elementary school, or before that, I went as far as getting a chick to show me her stuff and I showed her my stuff. So it was good from an early age, but something got fvcked up when my father came back from jail and divorced my mother. Hmmm, I had so many issues growing up. I can only remember two father figures in my life, one of them was actually good with women, but it was soooooo long ago. It's gonna take some major work on myself, if you know what I mean.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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the results of this are more pathetic than the "number of sex partners sosuave guys had" poll

PATHETIC

i voted myself #2 in this one by the way
 
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skip2mylou781 said:
the results of this are more pathetic than the "number of sex partners sosuave guys had" poll

PATHETIC

i voted myself #2 in this one by the way
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What is the objective of these forums?

To help guys out.....

So you have more than half who need help, good stuff.
 
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yet i also have more than 1/2 who flame on me when i try to help, which i find ridiculously funny AND counterproductive to all those losers
 
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skip2mylou781 said:
so now besides beign virgins, i find out that half fo sosuave HASNT KISSED A GIRL YET???? oh yea, but that 1/2 of sosuave loves to flame on me for being very successful.......im laughing so ****ing hard right now!
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You have probably never kissed a girl yourself, so why flame on others and write this crap. :mad:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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JezDuffield said:
You have probably never kissed a girl yourself, so why flame on others and write this crap. :mad:
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LOL right loser, cuz calling someone a liar is soooo sauve of u to do

if anything, im a man-*****, which may be counterproductive cuz i now care about ***** less than ever before, i just get it when im horny

u "jez" ur ****in hilarious though!
 
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skip2mylou781 said:
LOL right loser, cuz calling someone a liar is soooo sauve of u to do

if anything, im a man-*****, which may be counterproductive cuz i now care about ***** less than ever before, i just get it when im horny

u "jez" ur ****in hilarious though!
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stop flaming

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Wow.
The results are pretty insane.

Had no idea what the stats would come in like this.
I wonder what the age group breakdown is of the "never kissed" peeps, is.

I chose 2 by the way.
 
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Actually, my situation isn't exactly an answer on here. I'm an ace at scoring a girl and they're pretty much putty-in-my-hands, but only AFTER they notice me. MEETING interested women has always been my biggest problem... not seducing or securing them. :down: I've said this before but there's really not enough on this site with that regard, mostly suggestions on how to interact/communicate (I refuse to use the lame term 'game'), and not enough "how to wind up eye-to-eye with RECEPTIVE hotties"... Get me past step one and I'm fine!
 
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Ah, todos me la vienen pelando.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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