"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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My First Poll! SoSuave census, please take part

Which of these is most similar to you?

  • I'm a Master DJ, and take my pick from the hotties that endlessly throw themselves at me

    Votes: 13 6.3%
  • I'm no Jedi, but I do better with women than most guys I know.

    Votes: 86 41.7%
  • I get girls ok, but they often lose interest

    Votes: 57 27.7%
  • There's this one girl I want and it's killing me. She also seems to prefer her abusive ex

    Votes: 3 1.5%
  • I kissed a girl once, but otherwise nothing.

    Votes: 15 7.3%
  • I've never even kissed a girl

    Votes: 21 10.2%
  • I am a troll

    Votes: 11 5.3%

  • Total voters
    206

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Archaxis said:
Actually, my situation isn't exactly an answer on here. I'm an ace at scoring a girl and they're pretty much putty-in-my-hands, but only AFTER they notice me. MEETING interested women has always been my biggest problem... not seducing or securing them. :down: I've said this before but there's really not enough on this site with that regard, mostly suggestions on how to interact/communicate (I refuse to use the lame term 'game'), and not enough "how to wind up eye-to-eye with RECEPTIVE hotties"... Get me past step one and I'm fine!
Dude you need to read some more , this whole game is abot meeting girl who aren;t interested in you and generating that attraction.

Any fool can get girls who already like him.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Natch said:
Dude you need to read some more , this whole game is abot meeting girl who aren;t interested in you and generating that attraction.

Any fool can get girls who already like him.
That's what I'm saying... read what you wrote:

"this whole game is abot meeting girl who aren;t interested in you and generating that attraction"

1. "this whole game is abot meeting girl who aren;t interested in you"

The part I'm no good at.

2. "....and generating that attraction"

The part I have no problem with.

:rolleyes:
 

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It is good that most referred to them never kissing a girl rather than saying they were a troll. This to me shows that a good portion of you haven't written yourselves off and still have self value within yourselves.
 

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88888888 said:
It is good that most referred to them never kissing a girl rather than saying they were a troll. This to me shows that a good portion of you haven't written yourselves off and still have self value within yourselves.
Nice sentiments. You know what a troll is, right?

The poll seems to have balanced out a bit. Those who voted for the first two options make up roughly 20% of the membership, and its these posters the other 70% (not including trolls) need to listen to. Maybe it would be useful if these members, or just the 5% who voted for the first option, had the 'Master DJ' under their usernames, not just anyone that's been here for years and still hasn't kissed a girl?

SamePendo said:
Ah, todos me la vienen pelando.
The internet translates that as 'Ah, all they come it me peeling.' Eh?
 

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I chose option #2 cuz i dont LITERALLY have hot girls throwing themselves at me - its more like i always hook up with 7's, 8's and 9's, but i always am the one to initiate everythign, so i felt option 2 was better cuz i dont have all the hb10s approachign me and tryin to get with me lol
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Archaxis, I had the exact same problem as you have. I had good game, but i wasn't creating enough opportunities to use it. You need to start really dating hard. Talk to as many girls you can, and realise that girls want to be swept off their feet. Put your ego on ice, see any rejections as feedback and just keep meeting up with as many girls you can. In no time you'll be flying!
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
I chose option #2 cuz i dont LITERALLY have hot girls throwing themselves at me - its more like i always hook up with 7's, 8's and 9's, but i always am the one to initiate everythign, so i felt option 2 was better cuz i dont have all the hb10s approachign me and tryin to get with me lol
yeah same, and i don't want to get overconfident and complacent lol
 

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option 1 is inaccurate cuz there is NO guy who has "hot girls throwing themselves at him all the time" - who r the 5 who voted for that anyway???
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
option 1 is inaccurate cuz there is NO guy who has "hot girls throwing themselves at him all the time" - who r the 5 who voted for that anyway???
I can't speak for the other four, but I voted for option one because in my entire life I haven't known anyone better at attracting hot women than me.

But I didn't create the category for myself, I think that considering the nature of this site there should be at least some members who can say that, and when I came to vote it was the nearest option.

Of course there are men who women throw themselves at, celebrities and criminals mostly, heh. Also, I'm 37 and have had years to hone my charm. Maybe by the time you're my age you'll be beating them off with a sh*tty stick too.
 
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Nighthawk said:
The internet translates that as 'Ah, all they come it me peeling.' Eh?
I won't tell you what it is due to mods. But, I can tell you something.. what do you peel? Shapes? What would be the ultimate act of submission from a woman to you? Now, say you're in prison :whistle:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MRLEGEND said:
I feel I'm closer to #1...but NO ONE get's every woman they want
The secret is to want only those who want you in the first place.

I put option no.2 because I know what option 1 is, and it's some sick stuff.
 

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didnt some other dude try this...but he asked how many chicks people here have ****ed. everyone gave him **** about it, saying things likes "its not about how many you ****" its about "self improvement" and other ****, and some dude also saying something along the lines of "its private". So advice should be given by the people that screw chicks alot...yeah?
 

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Or have the widest choice for a quality woman. The Master DJ option doesn't state that you have to bang them all, neither does it say you can get absolutely any woman (no one can).

I'd say if you want advice on women, men who are successful with them would be the ones that should be listened to, no?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Actually, kitten, #2 is probably best suited for you.
 

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None of the above. Probably closest to #2, given my circumstances and standards.
 

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based on the results, I wager that some people are giving themselves more credit than due... especially if you consider the level of questions that people still ask.

I mean 30%, are #2... I'm calling that bluff.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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