"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My First Poll! SoSuave census, please take part

Which of these is most similar to you?

  • I'm a Master DJ, and take my pick from the hotties that endlessly throw themselves at me

    Votes: 13 6.3%

  • I'm no Jedi, but I do better with women than most guys I know.

    Votes: 86 41.7%

  • I get girls ok, but they often lose interest

    Votes: 57 27.7%

  • There's this one girl I want and it's killing me. She also seems to prefer her abusive ex

    Votes: 3 1.5%

  • I kissed a girl once, but otherwise nothing.

    Votes: 15 7.3%

  • I've never even kissed a girl

    Votes: 21 10.2%

  • I am a troll

    Votes: 11 5.3%
  • Total voters
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Quick poll - which of these guys do you consider closest to yourself?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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There's been discussion that this place is full of AFCnewbies and all the senior DJs, ones that had actually done it with a woman, had left.

I think it would be helpful to find out what percentage of people posting here are worth listening to.

Also, if anyone started here as one option, and changed to another because of this site, I'd be curious about that too.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i slightly agree with what you said...like i stated in the topic i created...it's been close to a year since i last posted here. But i'm back in need of 3rd party opinions. i could get into details of what i was prior to this website if you wanted.
 
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I got my pick in college. I just decided against going after a girl that was pretty good looking because she was a pretty boring girl to talk to.

She just did not match my personality at all. I got three others in my pocket though.

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So who is the only other person that voted for the first option?

Hmm, so half of the people here have never even kissed a girl. I've been here a while, under this ID and another, and I'm sure the ratio would have been very different a couple of years ago.

Anyway, bumped for more data.
 
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so now besides beign virgins, i find out that half fo sosuave HASNT KISSED A GIRL YET???? oh yea, but that 1/2 of sosuave loves to flame on me for being very successful.......im laughing so ****ing hard right now!
 
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I'm seriously working towards talking to a girl :whistle:

I'm a #7 I think, maybe 6, but I have no balls. I blew so many opportunities before it's scary. If I fvcked every girl that threw herself at me, I'd be with 80 women so far.. Problem was a fvcked up childhood I think. Plus I had gynecomastia ever since I remembered myself. Plus in last two years I become a little fat..... In elementary school, or before that, I went as far as getting a chick to show me her stuff and I showed her my stuff. So it was good from an early age, but something got fvcked up when my father came back from jail and divorced my mother. Hmmm, I had so many issues growing up. I can only remember two father figures in my life, one of them was actually good with women, but it was soooooo long ago. It's gonna take some major work on myself, if you know what I mean.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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the results of this are more pathetic than the "number of sex partners sosuave guys had" poll

PATHETIC

i voted myself #2 in this one by the way
 
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skip2mylou781 said:
the results of this are more pathetic than the "number of sex partners sosuave guys had" poll

PATHETIC

i voted myself #2 in this one by the way
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What is the objective of these forums?

To help guys out.....

So you have more than half who need help, good stuff.
 
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yet i also have more than 1/2 who flame on me when i try to help, which i find ridiculously funny AND counterproductive to all those losers
 
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skip2mylou781 said:
so now besides beign virgins, i find out that half fo sosuave HASNT KISSED A GIRL YET???? oh yea, but that 1/2 of sosuave loves to flame on me for being very successful.......im laughing so ****ing hard right now!
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You have probably never kissed a girl yourself, so why flame on others and write this crap. :mad:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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JezDuffield said:
You have probably never kissed a girl yourself, so why flame on others and write this crap. :mad:
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LOL right loser, cuz calling someone a liar is soooo sauve of u to do

if anything, im a man-*****, which may be counterproductive cuz i now care about ***** less than ever before, i just get it when im horny

u "jez" ur ****in hilarious though!
 
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skip2mylou781 said:
LOL right loser, cuz calling someone a liar is soooo sauve of u to do

if anything, im a man-*****, which may be counterproductive cuz i now care about ***** less than ever before, i just get it when im horny

u "jez" ur ****in hilarious though!
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stop flaming

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Wow.
The results are pretty insane.

Had no idea what the stats would come in like this.
I wonder what the age group breakdown is of the "never kissed" peeps, is.

I chose 2 by the way.
 
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Actually, my situation isn't exactly an answer on here. I'm an ace at scoring a girl and they're pretty much putty-in-my-hands, but only AFTER they notice me. MEETING interested women has always been my biggest problem... not seducing or securing them. :down: I've said this before but there's really not enough on this site with that regard, mostly suggestions on how to interact/communicate (I refuse to use the lame term 'game'), and not enough "how to wind up eye-to-eye with RECEPTIVE hotties"... Get me past step one and I'm fine!
 
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Ah, todos me la vienen pelando.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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