“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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My first night as a bouncer Part ll: Strip Club!!

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I want to treat the bouncer right also. Here, half are police, the other half are wrestlers. The few men who I would never want to mess with always come over and hug me. I always tip the police and usually the bouncers. Love the people you do business with.
Plus the PUAs always tell you to get in good with the bouncers for social proof. Apparently bouncers have some status to them. Probably helps when the irate boyfriend is going to beat them up for hitting on his girlfriend too, lol.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Plus the PUAs always tell you to get in good with the bouncers for social proof. Apparently bouncers have some status to them. Probably helps when the irate boyfriend is going to beat them up for hitting on his girlfriend too, lol.
I got 3 strippers who I was dating jobs at other clubs they had never been to. It helps when they see that other men respect you.
 

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I got 3 strippers who I was dating jobs at other clubs they had never been to. It helps when they see that other men respect you.
Good point. A real alpha male is respected by other males, has a high position in regard to other males. It's not just about how alpha males treat women.
 

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4.) Its a business, they have a sales routine. Stripping is a sales job.
The old HBO series about the Bunny Ranch was fascinating to me. Being a legal hooker is the same sales job. The amount of money a girl makes has nothing to do with looks. It can even be the opposite. One of the old veteran hookers in her 40s/50s was "Air Force Amy." She could fleece a guy out of ten grand before he even stuck his d!ck in her. Another girl might be 19 and much hotter, but too young to have learned the sales routine. So the young hot one does anything and everything for $200.
 

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Ok a few months ago you guys know I was looking for a part time job and discovered that I could use my size and muscle mass to make money as a bouncer.
You would be shocked how many places have an opening for bouncers.
Two more thoughts. Number one, now you have a financial incentive to go to the gym. Your physique creates your pay check. The bigger and better you look, the more you can have your choice of jobs.

Secondly, after you learn the business for a while, toss around the idea of having your own security agency. Any low-level job that people look down upon can make you into a millionaire if you start your own business providing that service. If you had the contract for a venue, then all of the guys work for you, which frees you up to pick up more contracts. Surely there has to be some sort of legal liability benefit to contracting out bouncers - if they kill someone by accident or just simply get sued, it's on the agency's insurance first.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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your in a fked up environment dawg. you are blinded by the glitz of the place now..but you'll soon see the dark underbelly of your industry and it will jade you. you gonna see the clientele and how you might be involved...those girls who are oh so nice, wait til the first time those hoes come in drunk an coked out, or she lies abouta customer touching her...trust me dawg the stories of dudes coming back to the club an taking a led pipe to the bouncers head are real. or even worse.

dont trust ANYONE in that hoe...better yet use a fake name etc. Good luck.
 

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Martial arts lesson would be a good idea, too, especially joint locks. The more you know, the easier it is to move someone around without hurting them. The point for you with the martial art is not so much learning how to fight, it is learning how to do so without anyone getting seriously hurt...and suing.
 

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@Bible_Belt I take Judo. Also I do like the fact I have a financial incentive to work out.

@Julian I'm not too worried. I purposely avoid bouncing at super shady places.
Of course with any strip club there is sketchiness. But it's ok
 

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@Bible_Belt I take Judo. Also I do like the fact I have a financial incentive to work out.

@Julian I'm not too worried. I purposely avoid bouncing at super shady places.
Of course with any strip club there is sketchiness. But it's ok
A 30 year old stripper who I dated in 2016 said "When you work in a bar you see some f*cked up sh!t. When you work in a strip bar you see some REALLY f*cked up sh!t." She said "One customer who is a regular pays girls to fart in his face". I was never one of those fart-on-call people but a friend of mine in high school could always fart if you asked him to. I never personally asked him to but other's did.

Another girl told me of one girl who had sex with 6 straight men in VIP, one by one, according to the bouncer, and she was beautiful.
 

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My last girlfriend never had sex in VIP but had regulars who would tell her they were a virgin and cry on her shoulder for 5 hours, and pay $1500.

She had a healing energy so I could see how she could sell that without having to put out. I once dated a stripper like that who I never got. When they are 25+ years younger you almost don't need to have sex with them, their energy feels so amazing. Girls who learn how to use that can make a lot of money. Remember: 70% of strippers are hookers - the 30% who aren't have incredible self control. You can spot them, they are rare but there are sweethearts. Cola will find some.
 

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I am confused. All this talk about gaming chicks that are strippers.

It takes no game. Just a wad in your pocket. Them "dating" you is only them keeping their palms greased in your wallet longer than the guy in the VIP room.

I get that you will pick up some tips and tricks in approaching them and talking to them along the way. The same can be done with an educated woman who is LTR material.

Sorry, but people who mainly target strippers are low self esteem who need other peoples validation, and have to pay for it.
 

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I am confused. All this talk about gaming chicks that are strippers.

It takes no game. Just a wad in your pocket. .
But how do you get the wad? You get a high paying job (i.e., you're not a Mexican bartender at a frat bar), which requires you are alpha in at least your industry. Come back to us when you have a job and tell us you feel more beta earning a living.

Them "dating" you is only them keeping their palms greased in your wallet longer than the guy in the VIP room.
...At about 93% off the VIP rate (and half the cost of taking a middle aged woman to dinner).

Note that Good Gao = Listen To Olly, a fat woman.
Sorry, but people who mainly target strippers are low self esteem who need other peoples validation, and have to pay for it.
Sorry, but show us photos of equally hot women who aren't strippers who you seduced.
 
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But how do you get the wad? You get a high paying job (i.e., you're not a Mexican bartender at a frat bar), which requires you are alpha in at least your industry. Come back to us when you have a job and tell us you feel more beta earning a living.


...At about 93% off the VIP rate (and half the cost of taking a middle aged woman to dinner).

Note that Good Gao = Listen To Olly, a fat woman.

Sorry, but show us photos of equally hot women who aren't strippers who you seduced.

1.) I own several business. No need for another high paying job.

2.) I already did. You must be slow......

Different strokes for different folks. I have money, I just don't buy pvssy from nasty strippers and pretend they are my gf. How shallow. And nasty.

Do they ask you if you want fries with that Big Neal?
 
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