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My first night as a bouncer Part ll: Strip Club!!

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Ok a few months ago you guys know I was looking for a part time job and discovered that I could use my size and muscle mass to make money as a bouncer.
You would be shocked how many places have an opening for bouncers.
I don't know if its because of how dangerous it has the potential to be, the hours or if people just dont even think to ask.
Also a lot of guys probably don't have the size. Most places aren't going to hire you to bounce if you are 5'8 165.

Anyway, I have been literally going from club to club asking if they need a bouncer, and have had to turn places down. Thats how huge the market is for this lucrative, usually easy part time job.
Anyway, I got a new gig at a strip club here are a few observations.

1.) The Strippers were very nice girls. Im not going to lie I had the misconception that strippers were money hungry or greedy ****s. These girls were not like that. I got the impression that they were genuine nice girls just trying to make some money to pay their bills. They fed me, offered me alcohol, tipped me 70 bucks on top of my nightly salary. They treated me with genuine kindness. They almost went out of their way.

2.) They look like regular girls.
When they came to work they just looked like regular girls that you would see out and about. They weren't wearing revealing clothes they just had on regular stuff.
When they hit the dressing room that's when the transformation happened. Some of the girls walked in the locker room looking like a 5 and walked out looking like an 8.
Its magic almost.

3.) They all had a reason they were stripping, they weren't just sl*ts using their body to make money. ( well one or two probably were just sluts using their body to make money.)
One of the girls had a disabled mom and was stripping to help take care of her younger brothers and sisters.
Another was a single mom and couldn't afford daycare.


4.) Its a business, they have a sales routine. Stripping is a sales job.
The girls have a routine. They walk up to guys sitting down and essentially go into salesman mode. They tell them they look nice, smell nice and genuinely seduce them into lap dances.
The girls do not like you. They generally don't want to date you. They are seducing you to get lap dances/drinks.

5.) What happens in the private room, stays in the private room.
If the strippers are back their giving blow jobs or something its nobodys business but hers and the clients.
I will tell you that it does happen.


6.) The type of guys who go that i observed:
  • Engineers, Tech Guys
  • Nerdy Guys
  • Old Rich Guys
I had several conversations with guys (I don't know why guys like talking to the bouncer so much)
Those are the observations I made last night.
They are just first night observations, nothing I wrote here is an absolute.

Also this is by no means a premier strip club. This is just a local neighborhood hole in the wall. It isn't on the vegas strip or anything.
 
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Ok a few months ago you guys know I was looking for a part time job and discovered that I could use my size and muscle mass to make money as a bouncer.
You would be shocked how many places have an opening for bouncers.
I don't know if its because of how dangerous it has the potential to be, the hours or if people just dont even think to ask.
Also a lot of guys probably don't have the size. Most places aren't going to hire you to bounce if you are 5'8 165.

Anyway, I have been literally going from club to club asking if they need a bouncer, and have had to turn places down. Thats how huge the market is for this lucrative, usually easy part time job.
Anyway, I got a new gig at a strip club here are a few observations.

1.) The Strippers were very nice girls. Im not going to lie I had the misconception that strippers were money hungry or greedy ****s. These girls were not like that. I got the impression that they were genuine nice girls just trying to make some money to pay their bills. They fed me, offered me alcohol, tipped me 70 bucks on top of my nightly salary. They treated me with genuine kindness. They almost went out of their way.

2.) They look like regular girls.
When they came to work they just looked like regular girls that you would see out and about. They weren't wearing revealing clothes they just had on regular stuff.
When they hit the dressing room that's when the transformation happened. Some of the girls walked in the locker room looking like a 5 and walked out looking like an 8.
Its magic almost.

3.) They all had a reason they were stripping, they weren't just sl*ts using their body to make money. ( well one or two probably were just sluts using their body to make money.)
One of the girls had a disabled mom and was stripping to help take care of her younger brothers and sisters.
Another was a single mom and couldn't afford daycare.


4.) Its a business, they have a sales routine. Stripping is a sales job.
The girls have a routine. They walk up to guys sitting down and essentially go into salesman mode. They tell them they look nice, smell nice and genuinely seduce them into lap dances.
The girls do not like you. They generally don't want to date you. They are seducing you to get lap dances/drinks.

5.) What happens in the private room, stays in the private room.
If the strippers are back their giving blow jobs or something its nobodys business but hers and the clients.
I will tell you that it does happen.


6.) The type of guys who go that i observed:
  • Engineers, Tech Guys
  • Nerdy Guys
  • Old Rich Guys
I had several conversations with guys (I don't know why guys like talking to the bouncer so much)
Those are the observations I made last night.
They are just first night observations, nothing I wrote here is an absolute.

Also this is by no means a premier strip club. This is just a local neighborhood hole in the wall. It isn't on the vegas strip or anything.
You have that view cause your their bouncer. Bouncers have free access basically. Also dealing with a stripper outside the club in normal life they tend to be manipulative gold digger.
 

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When I was in prime shape I used to have people coming up to me when I'd be in clubs asking if I was a bouncer, lol...it was actually pretty funny.

I definitely wasn't about to get into that tho, I'm just not big enough height wise...5'8" 190 lbs in jacked shape is pretty big, but there isn't much I can do against dudes that are 6'2" or 6'3" and outweigh me by 50-60 lbs or more...

Most bouncers I see are at least 6' tall and 215 lbs...
 

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2.) They look like regular girls.
When they came to work they just looked like regular girls that you would see out and about. They weren't wearing revealing clothes they just had on regular stuff.
When they hit the dressing room that's when the transformation happened. Some of the girls walked in the locker room looking like a 5 and walked out looking like an 8.
Its magic almost..
This is completely true and was my experience when dealing/dating strippers as well.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Most strippers in daylight are pretty basic to unattractive looking. Its amazing what lighting, make-up and the right fitting clothes can do
 

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Most strippers are skanks, but there are usually 1-2 really hot ones in the club. Most of the strip clubs in my city were closed during prostitution stings.

I'd also like to add that black strippers are much freakier than white strippers IME. I once stumbled into a black strip club in Miami and you'd be amazed what they'll do for a buck. I was the only white guy in there, but no one bothered me lmao.
 

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Most strippers are skanks, but there are usually 1-2 really hot ones in the club. Most of the strip clubs in my city were closed during prostitution stings.

I'd also like to add that black strippers are much freakier than white strippers IME. I once stumbled into a black strip club in Miami and you'd be amazed what they'll do for a buck. I was the only white guy in there, but no one bothered me lmao.
That's cause black women don't get any attention and HAVE to work harder in order to get tips
 

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Most strippers in daylight are pretty basic to unattractive looking. Its amazing what lighting, make-up and the right fitting clothes can do
That energy that's apparent after they made them self up, put on their stripper attire is their "swag". Males also have a "swag".

That's cause black women don't get any attention and HAVE to work harder in order to get tips
Smh. Black females have tight bodies with abs and firm perfect tits in bunches! Whose the top level athletes? Your blind.
 
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Most strippers in daylight are pretty basic to unattractive looking. Its amazing what lighting, make-up and the right fitting clothes can do
The truth is, a lot of the women we call HOT......once you take their make-up, eyeliner, push-up bras, fake weave, and other shyt off....many of them look like straight up MONSTERS by the face. Understand that HB8 and HB9 you are looking at over there.......once she takes all that shyt off.....she probably goes down to a HB5.

Catch her a.ss in the morning with all that shyt off along with her stank breath, stank pvssy, and crust in her eyes....see if she's still a HB9 then :rofl:
 

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This is completely true and was my experience when dealing/dating strippers as well.
I've taken about 50 strippers on dates and it's amazing when you witness the transformation between the way they act at the club and the way the are in real life. Cola is seeing both sides also basically. I've said all along most of these girls are nice girls.

With strippers you basically just pay the difference between girls who love you and girls who hate you. The hotter you are, the more they like you, the better service you'll get.

That said, if she is dating you and someone else, and since there is usually money involved, it literally is your business (by definition of the term) who else she is with.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Last October, on our third date, I got my favorite stripper to wash off all her makeup. I never saw a more beautiful girl in my life. I fell like a stone the very first time I made love to the real her.

On our next date I said "I watched you hustling at the club. I know that isn't the real you, but for that matter neither is this. I can only hope when the other mask comes off, that you look as nice as you did with no makeup on". Indeed, when the other mask eventually came off, 7 glorious months later, I learned she was just a little girl under it all. I lived Bob Dylan's Just Like a Woman.
 

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Most strippers are skanks, but there are usually 1-2 really hot ones in the club. Most of the strip clubs in my city were closed during prostitution stings.

I'd also like to add that black strippers are much freakier than white strippers IME. I once stumbled into a black strip club in Miami and you'd be amazed what they'll do for a buck. I was the only white guy in there, but no one bothered me lmao.
Indeed it takes me 4 trips to strip clubs these days to even find one girl I think is worth photographing. Last night I saw a girl who I absolutely adore but she ruined herself with tattoos - the worst being this under-boob work she did, and symbols on each of her butt cheeks, and a sleeve (she is only 20 and precious).

And it took me 18 months of behaving myself at the best club in the city before I found my last girlfriend (who I happened to already have met when she was a waitress). She had five references by the time she agreed to date me.

People pretend you can just go to the vending machine and replace any stripper but it's rare to find one you love and who loves you.
 
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In the UK pay as a bouncer is pretty poor unfortunately. It used to be good but it's changed over here.
 

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Anyway, I have been literally going from club to club asking if they need a bouncer, and have had to turn places down. Thats how huge the market is for this lucrative, usually easy part time job.
When I was a young man, I had a job at a factory, and my foreman (who was very cool) was always sitting on his behind. He told me something I never forgot: "I don't get paid for what I do, I get paid for what I know". Because if the machines went down or something, he could fix them. So he had a lot of downtime, but when things hit the fan he would swing into action. Sort of like bouncing, I guess.

These types of specialty jobs are the best ones to have, IMO. Where you don't have to work too hard but they need you on hand. Can be stressful at times though.

I agree with Amante, the strippers want to treat the bouncer right because you're their protection. Ah well, it's a tough life.
 

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I agree with Amante, the strippers want to treat the bouncer right because you're their protection. Ah well, it's a tough life.
I want to treat the bouncer right also. Here, half are police, the other half are wrestlers. The few men who I would never want to mess with always come over and hug me. I always tip the police and usually the bouncers. Love the people you do business with.
 
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