"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well, 9.9 technically, since that's as high as my scale goes.

I'm used to giving advice, so this is different for me.

This girl is the most beautiful girl I've ever met, smart, funny, has a great laugh, and is flat out amazing. She's used to rich guys, but I am not rich. :)

I do NOT have Oneitis. I'm actively seeing several other women. She is pursuing me. She is texting me (3:1 ratio). We're set to meet outside work. I feel like I've done everything right.

One issue: I've never dealt with a woman of this caliber. Is there anything in particular I should know?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The thing you should know is that she's only a human that looks a bit more attractive than the rest of them.

Act like you'd act around a fat girl. Make her really work for your d!ck.
 
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Good work, continue to passively do what you are doing, it is working so far. Keep on actively seeing those other women.
 
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XI AlphaMale IX said:
One issue: I've never dealt with a woman of this caliber. Is there anything in particular I should know?
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She's probably a 7 without makeup.
 
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Is there anything in particular I should know?


She's just like any other woman. Also, rich guys don't do it for her... she isn't with one now. So be your broke-ass self and treat her like a 6.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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the biggest thing is to make sure you remain congruent. any sniff of this and she will drop you like a bad habit. show her your active lifestyle, talking a big game will land you into the frame as a BS'er. do things that are fun and active. show her you do have other options and you wont be needy and you wont become clingy. dont call her text her everyday, that keeps her persuing you.
 
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remember that right after sex she will drop a full 2 points.
 
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