"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well, 9.9 technically, since that's as high as my scale goes.

I'm used to giving advice, so this is different for me.

This girl is the most beautiful girl I've ever met, smart, funny, has a great laugh, and is flat out amazing. She's used to rich guys, but I am not rich. :)

I do NOT have Oneitis. I'm actively seeing several other women. She is pursuing me. She is texting me (3:1 ratio). We're set to meet outside work. I feel like I've done everything right.

One issue: I've never dealt with a woman of this caliber. Is there anything in particular I should know?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The thing you should know is that she's only a human that looks a bit more attractive than the rest of them.

Act like you'd act around a fat girl. Make her really work for your d!ck.
 
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Good work, continue to passively do what you are doing, it is working so far. Keep on actively seeing those other women.
 
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XI AlphaMale IX said:
One issue: I've never dealt with a woman of this caliber. Is there anything in particular I should know?
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She's probably a 7 without makeup.
 
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Is there anything in particular I should know?


She's just like any other woman. Also, rich guys don't do it for her... she isn't with one now. So be your broke-ass self and treat her like a 6.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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the biggest thing is to make sure you remain congruent. any sniff of this and she will drop you like a bad habit. show her your active lifestyle, talking a big game will land you into the frame as a BS'er. do things that are fun and active. show her you do have other options and you wont be needy and you wont become clingy. dont call her text her everyday, that keeps her persuing you.
 
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remember that right after sex she will drop a full 2 points.
 
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