"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well, 9.9 technically, since that's as high as my scale goes.

I'm used to giving advice, so this is different for me.

This girl is the most beautiful girl I've ever met, smart, funny, has a great laugh, and is flat out amazing. She's used to rich guys, but I am not rich. :)

I do NOT have Oneitis. I'm actively seeing several other women. She is pursuing me. She is texting me (3:1 ratio). We're set to meet outside work. I feel like I've done everything right.

One issue: I've never dealt with a woman of this caliber. Is there anything in particular I should know?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The thing you should know is that she's only a human that looks a bit more attractive than the rest of them.

Act like you'd act around a fat girl. Make her really work for your d!ck.
 
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Good work, continue to passively do what you are doing, it is working so far. Keep on actively seeing those other women.
 
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XI AlphaMale IX said:
One issue: I've never dealt with a woman of this caliber. Is there anything in particular I should know?
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She's probably a 7 without makeup.
 
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Is there anything in particular I should know?


She's just like any other woman. Also, rich guys don't do it for her... she isn't with one now. So be your broke-ass self and treat her like a 6.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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the biggest thing is to make sure you remain congruent. any sniff of this and she will drop you like a bad habit. show her your active lifestyle, talking a big game will land you into the frame as a BS'er. do things that are fun and active. show her you do have other options and you wont be needy and you wont become clingy. dont call her text her everyday, that keeps her persuing you.
 
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remember that right after sex she will drop a full 2 points.
 
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