"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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my feelings towards my gf are diminishing, help!

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just be happy that you care less, coz shes gonna care more now. try dating other chicks for some time behind her back. it will show you how nice she is.
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right...thats retarded
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Warrior Princess

Try this: Tell her how you feel about her and ask her how she feels about you. I believe the problem here is miscommunication.
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Hahahaha. Some people think that just because they have vaginas, they can dish out relationship advice like this and get away with it.

Seriously, it's only been two months. I don't think pouring out your feelings to her is going to make her feel better about things. It will just make her insecure about how you are feeling and will probably end up pushing her away. That stuff is fine for a solidified relationship, but I wouldn't get into it now.

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well i saw her a heck of alot over lst 2 months, we've almost totaly exhausted thigns to talk about. its like we've been married for 10 years and all u can talk about is what happened in the past day away from each other

still make each other laugh, real laugh too, not fake polite laugh (a few of them are though)

and thers nothign to do anymore, go swimming, watcha movie, watch tv at home, have lunch/dinner, occasional brithday, go into bedroom. wat else is there to do?

whats also annoying is that we're not having sex yet, so that limits what we can do in teh bedroom quite a bit. and dont ask me, i have no idea why. not officially "going out" yet, i.e. not officially bf/gf, so she doens't want to have sex yet or some bs like that

and she occasionally has worries/doubts about us being together. one time is that she reckons i might get bored of her and will want to date other women so ill heurt her, another is she reckons my mum doens't like her
 
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