"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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my feelings towards my gf are diminishing, help!

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just be happy that you care less, coz shes gonna care more now. try dating other chicks for some time behind her back. it will show you how nice she is.
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right...thats retarded
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Warrior Princess

Try this: Tell her how you feel about her and ask her how she feels about you. I believe the problem here is miscommunication.
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Hahahaha. Some people think that just because they have vaginas, they can dish out relationship advice like this and get away with it.

Seriously, it's only been two months. I don't think pouring out your feelings to her is going to make her feel better about things. It will just make her insecure about how you are feeling and will probably end up pushing her away. That stuff is fine for a solidified relationship, but I wouldn't get into it now.

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well i saw her a heck of alot over lst 2 months, we've almost totaly exhausted thigns to talk about. its like we've been married for 10 years and all u can talk about is what happened in the past day away from each other

still make each other laugh, real laugh too, not fake polite laugh (a few of them are though)

and thers nothign to do anymore, go swimming, watcha movie, watch tv at home, have lunch/dinner, occasional brithday, go into bedroom. wat else is there to do?

whats also annoying is that we're not having sex yet, so that limits what we can do in teh bedroom quite a bit. and dont ask me, i have no idea why. not officially "going out" yet, i.e. not officially bf/gf, so she doens't want to have sex yet or some bs like that

and she occasionally has worries/doubts about us being together. one time is that she reckons i might get bored of her and will want to date other women so ill heurt her, another is she reckons my mum doens't like her
 
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