"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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my feelings towards my gf are diminishing, help!

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frivolousz21

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just be happy that you care less, coz shes gonna care more now. try dating other chicks for some time behind her back. it will show you how nice she is.
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right...thats retarded
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Warrior Princess

Try this: Tell her how you feel about her and ask her how she feels about you. I believe the problem here is miscommunication.
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Hahahaha. Some people think that just because they have vaginas, they can dish out relationship advice like this and get away with it.

Seriously, it's only been two months. I don't think pouring out your feelings to her is going to make her feel better about things. It will just make her insecure about how you are feeling and will probably end up pushing her away. That stuff is fine for a solidified relationship, but I wouldn't get into it now.

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well i saw her a heck of alot over lst 2 months, we've almost totaly exhausted thigns to talk about. its like we've been married for 10 years and all u can talk about is what happened in the past day away from each other

still make each other laugh, real laugh too, not fake polite laugh (a few of them are though)

and thers nothign to do anymore, go swimming, watcha movie, watch tv at home, have lunch/dinner, occasional brithday, go into bedroom. wat else is there to do?

whats also annoying is that we're not having sex yet, so that limits what we can do in teh bedroom quite a bit. and dont ask me, i have no idea why. not officially "going out" yet, i.e. not officially bf/gf, so she doens't want to have sex yet or some bs like that

and she occasionally has worries/doubts about us being together. one time is that she reckons i might get bored of her and will want to date other women so ill heurt her, another is she reckons my mum doens't like her
 
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