"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My expierience, its lame.

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Hello there DJs!

Heres the story. I was at a party, and i was just standing and talking to 3 of my guy friends. Since im new to college these guys where the only people i knew here. anywho we were Talking and stuff when i turned around Just so how the party is so far when i met eyes with a HB9. We had eye contact and surprisingly we both smiled. so i turned back to my friends and just started minding my own business. after a few mins the same girl approached us. She knew my 2 guys friends tht were over there and she gave them a hug and said hi. then she looked me and said "ive never seen u here before, im Sohini" i told her my name and she puts her hand out and i said " who does handshakes anymore?" and i just gave her a hug. WELL HERES THE LAME AFC PART... My friends started talkin to her i just stood there listening.... yea she then left just cuz her friend came over and took her. but yea after i could've sworn she was eyeing me. But yeah the next i asked my Friend who tht girl was because i forgot her name (im working on listening lol). then i told him the same story and he was like "theres no way she was eyeing u man" but i think she wassss.oh well yeah thought i should document this experience. SO far im just absorbing information right now.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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chiraag2000

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haha yeah man, oh wellz.

idk y she would approach me though lol
i mean im overweight(trying to lose weight though)
but i did have a DJ attitude.
 
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well with that attitude, i don't know why she would want you to stick your diick in her mouth either.
 
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haha lol, nah man im just new to this. after falling hard for a girl and gettin friendzoned. i decided its time to change. and so far im liking it.

i still got a DJ attitudeee. but thx for the feedback man. i really appreciate it
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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