"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My expierience, its lame.

chiraag2000

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Hello there DJs!

Heres the story. I was at a party, and i was just standing and talking to 3 of my guy friends. Since im new to college these guys where the only people i knew here. anywho we were Talking and stuff when i turned around Just so how the party is so far when i met eyes with a HB9. We had eye contact and surprisingly we both smiled. so i turned back to my friends and just started minding my own business. after a few mins the same girl approached us. She knew my 2 guys friends tht were over there and she gave them a hug and said hi. then she looked me and said "ive never seen u here before, im Sohini" i told her my name and she puts her hand out and i said " who does handshakes anymore?" and i just gave her a hug. WELL HERES THE LAME AFC PART... My friends started talkin to her i just stood there listening.... yea she then left just cuz her friend came over and took her. but yea after i could've sworn she was eyeing me. But yeah the next i asked my Friend who tht girl was because i forgot her name (im working on listening lol). then i told him the same story and he was like "theres no way she was eyeing u man" but i think she wassss.oh well yeah thought i should document this experience. SO far im just absorbing information right now.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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chiraag2000

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haha yeah man, oh wellz.

idk y she would approach me though lol
i mean im overweight(trying to lose weight though)
but i did have a DJ attitude.
 

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well with that attitude, i don't know why she would want you to stick your diick in her mouth either.
 

chiraag2000

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haha lol, nah man im just new to this. after falling hard for a girl and gettin friendzoned. i decided its time to change. and so far im liking it.

i still got a DJ attitudeee. but thx for the feedback man. i really appreciate it
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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