"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My expierience, its lame.

chiraag2000

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Hello there DJs!

Heres the story. I was at a party, and i was just standing and talking to 3 of my guy friends. Since im new to college these guys where the only people i knew here. anywho we were Talking and stuff when i turned around Just so how the party is so far when i met eyes with a HB9. We had eye contact and surprisingly we both smiled. so i turned back to my friends and just started minding my own business. after a few mins the same girl approached us. She knew my 2 guys friends tht were over there and she gave them a hug and said hi. then she looked me and said "ive never seen u here before, im Sohini" i told her my name and she puts her hand out and i said " who does handshakes anymore?" and i just gave her a hug. WELL HERES THE LAME AFC PART... My friends started talkin to her i just stood there listening.... yea she then left just cuz her friend came over and took her. but yea after i could've sworn she was eyeing me. But yeah the next i asked my Friend who tht girl was because i forgot her name (im working on listening lol). then i told him the same story and he was like "theres no way she was eyeing u man" but i think she wassss.oh well yeah thought i should document this experience. SO far im just absorbing information right now.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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chiraag2000

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haha yeah man, oh wellz.

idk y she would approach me though lol
i mean im overweight(trying to lose weight though)
but i did have a DJ attitude.
 

scrouds

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well with that attitude, i don't know why she would want you to stick your diick in her mouth either.
 

chiraag2000

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haha lol, nah man im just new to this. after falling hard for a girl and gettin friendzoned. i decided its time to change. and so far im liking it.

i still got a DJ attitudeee. but thx for the feedback man. i really appreciate it
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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