"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My "ex" wants to talk. How should I handle this??

Desdinova

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But the reason I wanna have this talk too was to tell her off. I know i know I don't have to and its not neccessary, but other than just being seen with other chicks and making HER suffer, I want the opportunity to have her accuse me of intentionally making her jealous thus making me lash at her.
You're a goddam drama queen. Why the hell are you intent on meeting up with her just to burn a goddam bridge?

I can't believe you're still letting this woman continue to dictate your life. She's your ex, and she's telling you to meet her, at her convenience, with her fvcking jury there, and you're obeying her commands like a mindless, lifeless robot.

She's a goddam ex. Employees who got fired from their jobs don't go back and do extra work for their ex-bosses for free. Why the hell are you bowing down to this b1tches wants and needs? Cut the goddam puppet strings and live your own life.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Desdinova said:
You're a goddam drama queen. Why the hell are you intent on meeting up with her just to burn a goddam bridge?

I can't believe you're still letting this woman continue to dictate your life. She's your ex, and she's telling you to meet her, at her convenience, with her fvcking jury there, and you're obeying her commands like a mindless, lifeless robot.

She's a goddam ex. Employees who got fired from their jobs don't go back and do extra work for their ex-bosses for free. Why the hell are you bowing down to this b1tches wants and needs? Cut the goddam puppet strings and live your own life.
I DO HAVE TO ADMIT. I THRIVE ON DRAMA:up: . Sorry, but its something I really enjoy. But other than that, I appreciate the responses to this thread. Maybe ill post about how the turn out was. I will keep in mind what has been said here and if you guys were right(which you guys probably are) I promise not to b!tch about it on the forum.
 

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This was a wasted thread. The only reason you started it is you hoped someone would tell you that she still cares about you and wants to be with you and that's the reason she wants to talk. It's your life and your experience to learn from though so have at it. Make sure you come back and tell the truth so we can all say that we told you so.
 

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DJjazzyJeff said:
This was a wasted thread. The only reason you started it is you hoped someone would tell you that she still cares about you and wants to be with you and that's the reason she wants to talk. It's your life and your experience to learn from though so have at it. Make sure you come back and tell the truth so we can all say that we told you so.
No honestly, I didnt need the thread to tell me that. "Actions speak louder than words." and she said it all with the way she was acting. If you guys want, Ill tell you guys about it with full honesty. I havent posted something that I didnt learn from any of my prior experiences or have given advice as to where Ive been. Yea, I admit im a stubborn person and like you said "Its your life and your experience to learn from". When I ask opinions from close friends I always make sure to compare it too the ones im given here, so don't think im not taking into consideration what this place has taught me. Hell, I enjoy critisicm. If it works out or not, ill tell you guys all about it.
 
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