"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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My "ex" wants to talk. How should I handle this??

Desdinova

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But the reason I wanna have this talk too was to tell her off. I know i know I don't have to and its not neccessary, but other than just being seen with other chicks and making HER suffer, I want the opportunity to have her accuse me of intentionally making her jealous thus making me lash at her.
You're a goddam drama queen. Why the hell are you intent on meeting up with her just to burn a goddam bridge?

I can't believe you're still letting this woman continue to dictate your life. She's your ex, and she's telling you to meet her, at her convenience, with her fvcking jury there, and you're obeying her commands like a mindless, lifeless robot.

She's a goddam ex. Employees who got fired from their jobs don't go back and do extra work for their ex-bosses for free. Why the hell are you bowing down to this b1tches wants and needs? Cut the goddam puppet strings and live your own life.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Desdinova said:
You're a goddam drama queen. Why the hell are you intent on meeting up with her just to burn a goddam bridge?

I can't believe you're still letting this woman continue to dictate your life. She's your ex, and she's telling you to meet her, at her convenience, with her fvcking jury there, and you're obeying her commands like a mindless, lifeless robot.

She's a goddam ex. Employees who got fired from their jobs don't go back and do extra work for their ex-bosses for free. Why the hell are you bowing down to this b1tches wants and needs? Cut the goddam puppet strings and live your own life.
I DO HAVE TO ADMIT. I THRIVE ON DRAMA:up: . Sorry, but its something I really enjoy. But other than that, I appreciate the responses to this thread. Maybe ill post about how the turn out was. I will keep in mind what has been said here and if you guys were right(which you guys probably are) I promise not to b!tch about it on the forum.
 

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This was a wasted thread. The only reason you started it is you hoped someone would tell you that she still cares about you and wants to be with you and that's the reason she wants to talk. It's your life and your experience to learn from though so have at it. Make sure you come back and tell the truth so we can all say that we told you so.
 

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DJjazzyJeff said:
This was a wasted thread. The only reason you started it is you hoped someone would tell you that she still cares about you and wants to be with you and that's the reason she wants to talk. It's your life and your experience to learn from though so have at it. Make sure you come back and tell the truth so we can all say that we told you so.
No honestly, I didnt need the thread to tell me that. "Actions speak louder than words." and she said it all with the way she was acting. If you guys want, Ill tell you guys about it with full honesty. I havent posted something that I didnt learn from any of my prior experiences or have given advice as to where Ive been. Yea, I admit im a stubborn person and like you said "Its your life and your experience to learn from". When I ask opinions from close friends I always make sure to compare it too the ones im given here, so don't think im not taking into consideration what this place has taught me. Hell, I enjoy critisicm. If it works out or not, ill tell you guys all about it.
 
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