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I know. There is a joke that says you should not get married if you want to have sex.

Married men dont get laid. Well alot dont .
Yup. My married guy friends and family say “Dude, if I were single, I’d be getting so much puzzy.”

I just roll my eyes and change the subject at this point.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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If you dont find a thread interesting then you can just skip it. Or you just want attention you dork.
This is a forum for men looking to improve their success in life and with women. Get better physically, mentally and professionally and attract hot women as a result of that process. As such, I see multiple issues:

propping yourself up that you keep in touch with some slam pig from a decade ago that you haven’t seen - This is not how confident men that progressed in life act

You claim you ‘alpha widowed’ - You keep talking to her. You miss her just as much, likely more so, than she misses you.

you’re on here talking out of both sides of your mouth about what she is doing is low class and yet you’re helping her pick her pictures out - more attention seeking

An alternative viewpoint develops in your bat signal thread of neediness and you resort to 1980’s style name calling - not what men do
 
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Yup. My married guy friends and family say “Dude, if I were single, I’d be getting so much puzzy.”

I just roll my eyes and change the subject at this point.
Similar to the psychology on display here:


"Now John at the bar is a friend of mine
He gets me my drinks for free
And he's quick with a joke or to light up your smoke
But there's some place that he'd rather be
He says, "Bill, I believe this is killing me"
As the smile ran away from his face
"Well, I'm sure that I could be a movie star
If I could get out of this place"
 

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This is a forum for men looking to improve their success in life and with women. Get better physically, mentally and professionally and attract hot women as a result of that process. As such, I see multiple issues:

propping yourself up that you keep in touch with some slam pig from a decade ago that you haven’t seen - This is not how confident men that progressed in life act

You claim you ‘alpha widowed’ - You keep talking to her. You miss her just as much, likely more so, than she misses you.

you’re on here talking out of both sides of your mouth about what she is doing is low class and yet you’re helping her pick her pictures out - more attention seeking

An alternative viewpoint develops in your bat signal thread of neediness and you resort to 1980’s style name calling - not what men do

It was interesting because it shows how much money even mid tier women can make online.

If you dont find it interesting you dont have to read or comment.

Dont you have 3 kids you could be spending time with rather than being nasty online? Maybe if you alpha widowed your wife you wouldnt be divorced.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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An alternative viewpoint develops in your bat signal thread of neediness and you resort to 1980’s style name calling - not what men do
You started it first by repeatedly calling me a liar. I was very polite at first. Dont throw rocks and then act like the victim.

I dont know whats going on in your personal life but you are coming off very toxic bro. Personally message me like a man or lets drop it.
 

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The reason I mentioned me alpha widowing her is because i believe I messed up her life.

Girls go crazy after heart break. If I had stayed in her life I dont think she would be doing this.

Every sex worker is disillusioned with love. Her heart was destroyed. I wasnt bragging i was stating facts.

We all have 1 or 2 girls who will never get over us. Its not a good thing.
 

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I dated a girl who later became a stripper.
These things happen.
Did she become a stripper because of you? I believe if the alpha widow had guided the girl then she would have not become a stripper.

I really believe that first heart break is pivotal moment in a females ( to a lesser degree male) trajectory. Sheryl Crow made a hit song about it lol.

After me she just didnt care anymore. She lost alot of weight went thru depression, hoe phase etc.

I called up all the girls i used to date and apologized for how I acted.

Idk man i could be full of shyt.
 

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Yup. My married guy friends and family say “Dude, if I were single, I’d be getting so much puzzy.”

I just roll my eyes and change the subject at this point.
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Yeh married guys dont know how much the game has changed. I also noticed married guys with daughters are ardent male feminist. They are very gynocentric in their views.
 

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Did she become a stripper because of you? I believe if the alpha widow had guided the girl then she would have not become a stripper.

I really believe that first heart break is pivotal moment in a females ( to a lesser degree male) trajectory. Sheryl Crow made a hit song about it lol.

After me she just didnt care anymore. She lost alot of weight went thru depression, hoe phase etc.

I called up all the girls i used to date and apologized for how I acted.

Idk man i could be full of shyt.
Probably not because of me.
She was a VERY horny girl and loved sfx.
And had a hot body.

At least she didn’t become a p0rn star.
 
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