Well its been a full 8 weeks since I've talked to my ex. However before she left she told me she was coming home on this past tuesday. So yesterday I finally saw her online and I was tempted to IM her btu I didn't because I wanted to see what you guys think I should do...I'm going to be leaving for school in 5 days...Indiana here I come...but do I just leave without talking to her or should I atleast make an attempt to hang out or atleast talk?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
My Ex is back..
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