"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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My Ex is back..

toddC

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Well its been a full 8 weeks since I've talked to my ex. However before she left she told me she was coming home on this past tuesday. So yesterday I finally saw her online and I was tempted to IM her btu I didn't because I wanted to see what you guys think I should do...I'm going to be leaving for school in 5 days...Indiana here I come...but do I just leave without talking to her or should I atleast make an attempt to hang out or atleast talk?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Porky

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why do you care?

do you want to talk to her? do you want to see her?

do whatever you want to do.
 

Bballer7389

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dude, I know what your feeling, its mad tempting, but jsut say to yourself fcuk it, your better than her, and theres no reason to stay in touch, but hey you do waht u want.
 

JLW

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If you broke up, it's best to just leave it at that. Have you gotten with any other girls since then?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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JLW

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in that case its not as if you're desperate, so who cares about her. you've been doing fine without her. just keep focusing on hobbies and other girls.

I mean I'm a pretty amateur DJ so far, dont get me wrong. But even I know that contacting an ex isnt the best idea.
 
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