Tyson420
Senior Don Juan
If he's not Bsing it's probably Taylor Swift or a new R&B star.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
my ex is a celebrity now, how can i get her back [merged threads]
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
"ex is a celebrity" cdy4261
ok so some of you actually had good stuff to say
i think im going to write her a letter and give it to her parents...
she's hard to catch when she's in town
i was actually thinkin bout going to one of her autograph signings..and giving her the letter saying hey.. and jot down my info in the letter...
is this a good idea?
(oh and does anyone know how to disable the box that say"you have reached the maximum number posts within a 1440 time period for this session"...or else i have to keep reposting new ones
ok so some of you actually had good stuff to say
i think im going to write her a letter and give it to her parents...
she's hard to catch when she's in town
i was actually thinkin bout going to one of her autograph signings..and giving her the letter saying hey.. and jot down my info in the letter...
is this a good idea?
(oh and does anyone know how to disable the box that say"you have reached the maximum number posts within a 1440 time period for this session"...or else i have to keep reposting new ones
Da Realist
Master Don Juan
What happened to the girl on the cruise ship?
Dante420
Master Don Juan
lol
Never appear at an autograph signing. Did you even think that through?
Chasing her around, probably driving 30 minutes out of the way after seeking out the date of her arrival like some type of obsessed fan. Then waiting in line like all the other autograph seekers?
How you think she's gonna think of you? Leave a message with her parents or hopefully see her there. Good luck
Never appear at an autograph signing. Did you even think that through?
Chasing her around, probably driving 30 minutes out of the way after seeking out the date of her arrival like some type of obsessed fan. Then waiting in line like all the other autograph seekers?
How you think she's gonna think of you? Leave a message with her parents or hopefully see her there. Good luck
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Dante is right.
What's next, you're gonna join her fan club in order to have exclusive access to her? Wrong frame!
Go to her house. Better yet, if she was too busy for you back then, why would she be less busy now?
What's next, you're gonna join her fan club in order to have exclusive access to her? Wrong frame!
Go to her house. Better yet, if she was too busy for you back then, why would she be less busy now?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
what's a "kanye"?
Leisure Suit Larry
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I bet it's Susan Boyle from American Idol. That's why he won't say the name.
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ElCubanito13
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Is She Real????
CaliGuyInLondon
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its obviously taylor swift by the way.
but yes, frame is huge here. you need to treat her like you treated her back then. i always think its funny when guys deal with models, or stars, and don't get me wrong, its very easy to slip into it, but as an actor i've learned how to avoid it i guess.
Stars like that don't walk around thinking in their head, I'm a ****ing star...Well maybe kanye does. She walks around like a normal person.
If you come back into her life, in a confident, manly fashion, she will not think, i bet he wants my money. After all the reason you left was noble, you were defending our country. It's not like you nailed her, left then came back for her fame.
So come back in the frame. Swing by her house and say hey, i'm back, and we're going to dinner to catch up. I'll give you 5 minutes to get ready. Treat her like you'd have treated her before she was a star, because that's what she wants.
Any other questions feel free to ask. Of course this is just my two cents, but I think you'll find it will help.
but yes, frame is huge here. you need to treat her like you treated her back then. i always think its funny when guys deal with models, or stars, and don't get me wrong, its very easy to slip into it, but as an actor i've learned how to avoid it i guess.
Stars like that don't walk around thinking in their head, I'm a ****ing star...Well maybe kanye does. She walks around like a normal person.
If you come back into her life, in a confident, manly fashion, she will not think, i bet he wants my money. After all the reason you left was noble, you were defending our country. It's not like you nailed her, left then came back for her fame.
So come back in the frame. Swing by her house and say hey, i'm back, and we're going to dinner to catch up. I'll give you 5 minutes to get ready. Treat her like you'd have treated her before she was a star, because that's what she wants.
Any other questions feel free to ask. Of course this is just my two cents, but I think you'll find it will help.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Tyson420
Senior Don Juan
I would totally go after Taylor Swift again if she was my ex, I would be rich as hell.
ALRIGHT,
if this girl is a big celebrity than you should just move on for a while
I cant believe so many posters on THIS site would encourage you to try something
she is meeting tons of cool people and is probably really busy, her old lifestyle is probably a little boring and she has a lot of forward momentum, shes meeting tons of guys and isnt getting married soon
just do your own thing and maybe in a few years you can reconnect when shes a little more jaded and you have a better game plan
if this girl is a big celebrity than you should just move on for a while
I cant believe so many posters on THIS site would encourage you to try something
she is meeting tons of cool people and is probably really busy, her old lifestyle is probably a little boring and she has a lot of forward momentum, shes meeting tons of guys and isnt getting married soon
just do your own thing and maybe in a few years you can reconnect when shes a little more jaded and you have a better game plan
eaglez1177
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This loser needs to get a fvcking life...he was never with a celebrity hes just some pathetic afc with one itis.
Hullothere
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you have to be able to demonstrate higher value.. its going to be especially hard because shes a "huge celebrity in your own words. Think of how many "high value" guys are around her
okay this is an update..
so i wrote her a letter and swung by her house this afternoon.
she wasnt home- but her parents remembered who i was and greeted me in.
we talked about life and what not
anyways..i gave them the letter and told them to give it to her.
they were TOTALLY cool about it...
they were like yeah of course we can do that
all smiles..great vibes..ANNNNNDDDDD
I GOT HER NEW NUMBER...now.....i dont think i want to text her..lol, im tryin to work this out perfect...or as perfect as possible. any suggestiions...but i think im going to wait for her to get the letter..which has my contact info in it.
the letter mainly consisted of reminiscing about really fun times we had together...im tryin to get her to laugh and put me at the forefront in her mind.
should i wait till she calls or call her out of the blue ?
so i wrote her a letter and swung by her house this afternoon.
she wasnt home- but her parents remembered who i was and greeted me in.
we talked about life and what not
anyways..i gave them the letter and told them to give it to her.
they were TOTALLY cool about it...
they were like yeah of course we can do that
all smiles..great vibes..ANNNNNDDDDD
I GOT HER NEW NUMBER...now.....i dont think i want to text her..lol, im tryin to work this out perfect...or as perfect as possible. any suggestiions...but i think im going to wait for her to get the letter..which has my contact info in it.
the letter mainly consisted of reminiscing about really fun times we had together...im tryin to get her to laugh and put me at the forefront in her mind.
should i wait till she calls or call her out of the blue ?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Word is out that Tommy Motola and Puff Daddy are already working on her.Hullothere said:
i didnt plan on coming here to "brag" or make "fantasies"
look im sorry your lives are boring and you cant come to terms with yourself as to how i managed to score such a lucky catch..
im just lookin for advice on what to do
IF YOU DONT BELIEVE ME...THEN QUIT READING/POSTING
haha, you say its not true..but you keep reading-
look im sorry your lives are boring and you cant come to terms with yourself as to how i managed to score such a lucky catch..
im just lookin for advice on what to do
IF YOU DONT BELIEVE ME...THEN QUIT READING/POSTING
haha, you say its not true..but you keep reading-
SomethingCreative
Don Juan
If you really had a relationship with this girl, what is the fear in calling her? Assuming you guys ended up on good terms, she probably at least used to like you, and being the military could only raise her image of you. Also, if you left a not with her parent, they 100% told her that you stopped by or whatever so it wouldn't be completely out of the blue. Most importantly though, if she doesn't want you to be part of her life it will be perfectly obvious in the conversation, then you will know whether it is time to move on or not.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.