"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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My Ex Grew up and want's me back.

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So I was talking to my ex the other night[We had a LTR going for two years] untill 3AM and got into some deep conversation about her feelings for me.

Because of the distance we were forced to break up when we still had feelings for eachother. It's been two years since we broke up and she has gotten a new BF who has been gone for the past five weeks and she has only been dating him for two months.Nothing serious.

In our conversation she told me that she "likes" him but " loves" me.
I was her "first love" as she says it.

I'm going to see her this thursday.
She stated in our convo that she "wasn't letting her having BF change anything we'd do and let whatever happens, happen."

Though of coarse that didn't come without the ASD and her saying how she's not looking to cheat on him.

So I know she wants to kiss me etc and had said it, but I haven't seen her forever so it all depends on me taking down her BF sheild she is hiding behind. I have a feeling it will be very small though because I know she wants me too.

Should I keep escalating my game when I see her even though she has a bf??
and if so, how can I do it in an unsuspecting way to where I don't have to deal with that resistance or getting blown out because she has a bf.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Your not serious about going back to a relationship that has set sail are you?

What exactly have you done to move on since then?
 
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Listen guys. I'm not looking to "take her back." I'm looking for a fun time with a nice girl who I have a great connection with. Some of you people are pesimists.Jeez. I have had multiple other gf's since then.16.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Still do not get involved again not even for sex. You should have other prospects.
 
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