"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My Ex Grew up and want's me back.

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So I was talking to my ex the other night[We had a LTR going for two years] untill 3AM and got into some deep conversation about her feelings for me.

Because of the distance we were forced to break up when we still had feelings for eachother. It's been two years since we broke up and she has gotten a new BF who has been gone for the past five weeks and she has only been dating him for two months.Nothing serious.

In our conversation she told me that she "likes" him but " loves" me.
I was her "first love" as she says it.

I'm going to see her this thursday.
She stated in our convo that she "wasn't letting her having BF change anything we'd do and let whatever happens, happen."

Though of coarse that didn't come without the ASD and her saying how she's not looking to cheat on him.

So I know she wants to kiss me etc and had said it, but I haven't seen her forever so it all depends on me taking down her BF sheild she is hiding behind. I have a feeling it will be very small though because I know she wants me too.

Should I keep escalating my game when I see her even though she has a bf??
and if so, how can I do it in an unsuspecting way to where I don't have to deal with that resistance or getting blown out because she has a bf.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Your not serious about going back to a relationship that has set sail are you?

What exactly have you done to move on since then?
 
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Listen guys. I'm not looking to "take her back." I'm looking for a fun time with a nice girl who I have a great connection with. Some of you people are pesimists.Jeez. I have had multiple other gf's since then.16.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Still do not get involved again not even for sex. You should have other prospects.
 
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