Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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My Ex Grew up and want's me back.

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So I was talking to my ex the other night[We had a LTR going for two years] untill 3AM and got into some deep conversation about her feelings for me.

Because of the distance we were forced to break up when we still had feelings for eachother. It's been two years since we broke up and she has gotten a new BF who has been gone for the past five weeks and she has only been dating him for two months.Nothing serious.

In our conversation she told me that she "likes" him but " loves" me.
I was her "first love" as she says it.

I'm going to see her this thursday.
She stated in our convo that she "wasn't letting her having BF change anything we'd do and let whatever happens, happen."

Though of coarse that didn't come without the ASD and her saying how she's not looking to cheat on him.

So I know she wants to kiss me etc and had said it, but I haven't seen her forever so it all depends on me taking down her BF sheild she is hiding behind. I have a feeling it will be very small though because I know she wants me too.

Should I keep escalating my game when I see her even though she has a bf??
and if so, how can I do it in an unsuspecting way to where I don't have to deal with that resistance or getting blown out because she has a bf.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Your not serious about going back to a relationship that has set sail are you?

What exactly have you done to move on since then?
 
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Listen guys. I'm not looking to "take her back." I'm looking for a fun time with a nice girl who I have a great connection with. Some of you people are pesimists.Jeez. I have had multiple other gf's since then.16.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Still do not get involved again not even for sex. You should have other prospects.
 
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