So the only reason people take care of themselves is to look good for the opposite sex? That’s approval seeking behavior. What about wanting to be healthy for themselves? Wheres the confidence? Wheres the self respect? This girl is unhappy and too weak to do anything about it.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
My ex got fat.. why?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Master Don Juan
Getting fat is easy, getting back into shape or staying in shape is hard. If you aren't making active efforts you'll likely be inclined to get fat (exceptions: particularly healthy diet or particularly active lifestyles, you'll never see a fat vegan or a fat guy who walks all day)