So the only reason people take care of themselves is to look good for the opposite sex? That’s approval seeking behavior. What about wanting to be healthy for themselves? Wheres the confidence? Wheres the self respect? This girl is unhappy and too weak to do anything about it.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
My ex got fat.. why?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
Getting fat is easy, getting back into shape or staying in shape is hard. If you aren't making active efforts you'll likely be inclined to get fat (exceptions: particularly healthy diet or particularly active lifestyles, you'll never see a fat vegan or a fat guy who walks all day)