"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My Ex Girlfriend asked me to delete her

salsalero

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Hi guys,

My Ex Girlfriend asked me to delete her on chat messenger ... by the way I got new gf

So i told her "You can delete me if you want to" .... so she didn't delete me and i didn't delete her .... it look like she don't want to delete me herself, but i must do it.

So i'm not going to delete her, but i insist that i'm not going to do it, but if she feels this way then she must do it. If she delete me i won't invite her again

What a circus lol

What do u guys think?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Iceberg

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I dont know...whatever. I'd personally delete her, seeing how she's your ex and she's just bringing drama into your life.

But you seem to enjoy it...so again I say,...whatever.

Sounds like you need some hobbies.
 

fatdog

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salsalero said:
What do u guys think?
What do I think? That you're being a huge woman about this. I imagine this is the same woman that went back to her baby daddy. Just drop this sh1t and stick with your current girl.
 

salsalero

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fatdog said:
What do I think? That you're being a huge woman about this. I imagine this is the same woman that went back to her baby daddy. Just drop this sh1t and stick with your current girl.
lol, yes same woman that went back to her baby daddy

I'm happy with current gf and are sticking with her.

What i don't understand is why she herself don't want to delete me. i want her to do it rather because my logic is sometime in future she might realize or think that she made a mistake. She deleted me. Plus I wear the pants so I'm not going to allow a woman to dictate to me what to do.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kailex

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salsalero said:
What i don't understand is why she herself don't want to delete me. i want her to do it rather because my logic is sometime in future she might realize or think that she made a mistake. She deleted me. Plus I wear the pants so I'm not going to allow a woman to dictate to me what to do.
Well, indirectly she is dictating what you do. If you truly didn't care, you wouldn't be asking or you would have deleted her by now.

So... I don't see where you wear the pants when you're sitting here asking: Why won't she delete me?

WHO CARES?
Don't you have your own relationship you need to worry about?

And stop trying to rationalize women's decisions. Waste of time.
 

fatdog

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salsalero said:
lol, yes same woman that went back to her baby daddy

I'm happy with current gf and are sticking with her.

What i don't understand is why she herself don't want to delete me. i want her to do it rather because my logic is sometime in future she might realize or think that she made a mistake. She deleted me. Plus I wear the pants so I'm not going to allow a woman to dictate to me what to do.
This girl is already controlling your life because despite you having a girlfriend, you're still thinking about her and you're here writing posts about her. Delete her. Not just from messenger, but from your life. Don't think about her, don't talk about her, don't contact her, nothing. She fvcked up by dumping you, sucks for her.

You shouldn't be thinking about her "realizing her mistake" or anything about her in the future. She's in the past. What she does in the future is none of your concern. You have a new girlfriend, and you should be thinking about her, not your ex.
 

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im glad the guys on this forum could help you with such a life altering decision....
 

CaptainJ

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omega05 said:
im glad the guys on this forum could help you with such a life altering decision....
Haha my thoughts exactly
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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