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My Ex Girlfriend asked me to delete her

salsalero

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Hi guys,

My Ex Girlfriend asked me to delete her on chat messenger ... by the way I got new gf

So i told her "You can delete me if you want to" .... so she didn't delete me and i didn't delete her .... it look like she don't want to delete me herself, but i must do it.

So i'm not going to delete her, but i insist that i'm not going to do it, but if she feels this way then she must do it. If she delete me i won't invite her again

What a circus lol

What do u guys think?
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Iceberg

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I dont know...whatever. I'd personally delete her, seeing how she's your ex and she's just bringing drama into your life.

But you seem to enjoy it...so again I say,...whatever.

Sounds like you need some hobbies.
 

fatdog

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salsalero said:
What do u guys think?
What do I think? That you're being a huge woman about this. I imagine this is the same woman that went back to her baby daddy. Just drop this sh1t and stick with your current girl.
 

salsalero

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fatdog said:
What do I think? That you're being a huge woman about this. I imagine this is the same woman that went back to her baby daddy. Just drop this sh1t and stick with your current girl.
lol, yes same woman that went back to her baby daddy

I'm happy with current gf and are sticking with her.

What i don't understand is why she herself don't want to delete me. i want her to do it rather because my logic is sometime in future she might realize or think that she made a mistake. She deleted me. Plus I wear the pants so I'm not going to allow a woman to dictate to me what to do.
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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Kailex

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salsalero said:
What i don't understand is why she herself don't want to delete me. i want her to do it rather because my logic is sometime in future she might realize or think that she made a mistake. She deleted me. Plus I wear the pants so I'm not going to allow a woman to dictate to me what to do.
Well, indirectly she is dictating what you do. If you truly didn't care, you wouldn't be asking or you would have deleted her by now.

So... I don't see where you wear the pants when you're sitting here asking: Why won't she delete me?

WHO CARES?
Don't you have your own relationship you need to worry about?

And stop trying to rationalize women's decisions. Waste of time.
 

fatdog

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salsalero said:
lol, yes same woman that went back to her baby daddy

I'm happy with current gf and are sticking with her.

What i don't understand is why she herself don't want to delete me. i want her to do it rather because my logic is sometime in future she might realize or think that she made a mistake. She deleted me. Plus I wear the pants so I'm not going to allow a woman to dictate to me what to do.
This girl is already controlling your life because despite you having a girlfriend, you're still thinking about her and you're here writing posts about her. Delete her. Not just from messenger, but from your life. Don't think about her, don't talk about her, don't contact her, nothing. She fvcked up by dumping you, sucks for her.

You shouldn't be thinking about her "realizing her mistake" or anything about her in the future. She's in the past. What she does in the future is none of your concern. You have a new girlfriend, and you should be thinking about her, not your ex.
 

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im glad the guys on this forum could help you with such a life altering decision....
 

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omega05 said:
im glad the guys on this forum could help you with such a life altering decision....
Haha my thoughts exactly
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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