My Ex 2 Year LTR is still talking negatively about me nearly a year later

[Dante420]

one of my ex gf's told me she was talking to my ltr ex-gf and she said that she brought me up out of nowhere with some complete fake story about how I'm just out to play a girl....... this is nearly a year after our 2 year relationship ended and we dont talk at all. i told the more recent ex-gf that "it takes a very creative low life to keep my name in their month for over a year" and she was like "I know I didn't believe her for a second, she's clearly jealous". so is this girl just making herself look pathetic to all who she mentions me to with the exception of the group of males she hangs around to fetch and eat off her words?

 

[Commandante]

So... you are talking with your ex about your other ex... don´t you have anything important to do man? Like watching TV or sleeping? What do you think, what is the probability of that one (or both) of them is lying? 99,99%?

 

[Dante420]

So... you are talking with your ex about your other ex... don´t you have anything important to do man? Like watching TV or sleeping? What do you think, what is the probability of that one (or both) of them is lying? 99,99%?

you know life happens right? like unplanned a girl my call u and seek to catch up with you and if she sees relevance in something she's going to bring it up because the cool one is a great conservationist, she's the type thats witty enough to respond to C&F. i cut off communication with her after broke up but i have respect for her so she's welcome to talk to me. these are the only two girls i made commitments with in my life and the second one was a short term relationship, she was just a good friend and good to be around for reasons mentioned above. the other one is a waste of life on a few levels

 

[Ease]

Your recent ex sounds cute.

 

[WC2]

She's insecure about herself and still has feelings for you.

The only reason people talk about and judge others badly is because they have things they are insecure about.

I've been in your position and honestly I'd just laugh at her. Take the high road. She's just trying to get a spark out of you and bring her down to her level. Don't let it happen. You're better than that.

 

[Dante420]

Your recent ex sounds cute.

Oh she is, she's adorable. Stylish, looking like a brunette Barbie. On top of that she said she stuck up for me and was only saying positive things, she respects my intelligence (unlike the other one) and she speaks highly of me. At this point she's a loyal acquaintance I haven't seen in awhile

She's insecure about herself and still has feelings for you.

The only reason people talk about and judge others badly is because they have things they are insecure about.

I've been in your position and honestly I'd just laugh at her. Take the high road. She's just trying to get a spark out of you and bring her down to her level. Don't let it happen. You're better than that.

Sounds about right, thanks. She's the type of girl that hates other girls because she fears them competitively, she'll avoid hanging out with girls that she feels intimidated around. Most of her friends are dudes who step n' fetch for her and give her attention, she has no interest in any man that has given her approval. I won't let her bring me down to that level, as far as she knows I'm ballin' and stuntin' on life right now, I just need to keep it up :rockon: