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My encounter with a bonafide BPD in the field last night

Solomon

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Last night I was out with Bork and some other fellow gamers in a swanky part of town. I was up on the rooftop just chilling by myself for a bit when I accidentally pushed my chair back and bumped into a blond(I fancy those) she was very receptive towards me and Kinoed me instantly. It felt a bit weird cause I know some other guys she was sitting was trying to hit on her and I honestly wasn't trying to mack. The other weird thing was we would talk she then would try to hold unto my hand like a couple, and if I didn't comply she would "hit me" (which is more like a tap coming from a women) here is part of the convo that I remember before I ejected

"Why you acting like that?" Her

"Acting like what? your the one being childish, and hitting me"

"I enjoy friendship, I need Friendship"

"I don't do friend-zone"

"I love you, why don't you love me the way I love you"


MY RADAR WENT OFF THIS BYTCH IS CRAZZZZZZZZZY:nervous:
I decided to play along for practice sakes.

"Erm you didn't make dinner last night like you were suppose too"​
:yes:

she then hits me again

I bounce stating I had to get a drink (b.s.), I don't know if she was on coke or something but she was definitely out of it and kept pretending like we were a couple and would hit me then try to make feel good by rubbing my hands affectionately. It was like a female version of a push and pull.

eeh

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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Dear Solomen,
Never had that happen....your suggestion re Coke,sounds right...though some of these medications do the same thing...
Dear Old Sue Madre,wanting to step in where Angels fear to tread...A few years ago you might have been right,but these Days look where it got Strauss-Kahn and Julian Assange...These Women are like a Taipan curled up in the grass,tread on them and they bite!
 

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You call that BPD ??? Okay so she gave you very high levels of interest and you didn't mack on her ?

Next time this happens (I doubt it will anytime soon) take the girl away from all the noise and close you could have actually taken this girl and had a wonderful ons mate.
 

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Wtf??? :rolleyes:

You should watch a girl for some period of time to be able to "see" and gather enough information about her (the bpd patterns).

Just this convo is not enough. Like it was said above, it seems like a girl with high IL (being flirty). This bpd term is being overused around here...

*If you had dated 2 times and she wanted to marry you or move in with you, then my spider sense would be tingling. This is a sure heavy signal of a probable bpd.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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maybe I didn't make myself clear enough or maybe you guys didn't read this thoroughly

Like I said she was "out of it" like she was on drugs, reason I say that is she would close her eyes and tilt her head back then 2 minutes later be conscious again

Yeah I wanna bang a chick who might OD on me in the middle of me getting my rocks of

:rolleyes:
 

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Sounds just like a drunken girl to me. I think what the guys are saying is that BPD is a clinical diagnosis of mental illness. I would add that the symptoms rarely manifest until some sort of relationship has taken root.

Lots of bar skanks and chicks in general act out of it and crazy but are not actually BPD. BPD symptoms creep in like a thief in the night and dismantle you one tiny piece at a time. There has to be an emotional hook for her to gain a foothold. Once she has your emotional involvement the carnage commences.
 

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Bull´s eye

Atom Smasher said:
BPD symptoms creep in like a thief in the night and dismantle you one tiny piece at a time. There has to be an emotional hook for her to gain a foothold. Once she has your emotional involvement the carnage commences.
Pretty much nailed it! :yes:
 

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Dam I would have pulled her away from every one else just because some moocher may try to jump in on your awesome drunkie lay. Offered her a drink and had one myself too because this is getting good now. Mack a little bit maybe a lil touchy feely to test the waters and landed that goose on my )!@%!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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? What has that got to do with BPD?
 
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