"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My DJ style.........

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currently I have no game mainly because I had a 2yr relationship so that put me behind. Now i'm in college and need game!!!! I found out the style I can adapt. Here it is...... I CAN PLAY INNOCENT (girls always think I am) , I CAN BE PRIVATE, I LOOK SERIOUS SMART & QUIET (for some reason, girls always think I'm smart). So is there n e 1 out there that can give me some ways to use these characteristics to my advantage? I need to develop my style.... I'm thinking about going downtown sometime and approaching women. N E pointers on that too?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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My arm chair theory (ymmv):

Dont just look smart and serious, become smart. Read a lot of different things and know a lot of different things.

Hangout in bookstores and other places where being smart and serious is an advantage. Talk to your prey about what she's reading. Become a true observationist. While your sitting around looking all innocent, serious, and smart pick up on things about women that attract you.

Approach, approach, and approach. Quiet men rarely get the girl, after all it is our job to hunt.

I'm not sure if this is what your looking for?
 

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I can play smart, I know how to do it. I just don't like books but I can really sound smart if I wanted to. Maybe I am smart and just underestimate myself because I compare myself 2 nerds.......................I am smart, now that I think about it. I am smart... I am smart... I am smart... OK..... thankfully I've figured out that I am smart.... but in an intellectual way.... I'm not street smart though and that is very important also
 

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Uh... be exciting? Be unpredictable... make them feel safe... and uhhh... make them smile... show them a good time... touch them when they excite you... touch them when you make a joke about them... uhh, let's see... say some funny **** every once in a while, usually something outragious. I think you'll be good.

You can be smart, or dumb as rocks. If you know how to entertain them while exciting them, then you're golden.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by omizzi
currently I have no game mainly because I had a 2yr relationship so that put me behind. Now i'm in college and need game!!!! I found out the style I can adapt. Here it is...... I CAN PLAY INNOCENT (girls always think I am) , I CAN BE PRIVATE, I LOOK SERIOUS SMART & QUIET (for some reason, girls always think I'm smart). So is there n e 1 out there that can give me some ways to use these characteristics to my advantage? I need to develop my style.... I'm thinking about going downtown sometime and approaching women. N E pointers on that too?
Are u asian?
 

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No i'm not asian and I need to know how to utilize my smarts not whether I'm insulting myself
 
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