currently I have no game mainly because I had a 2yr relationship so that put me behind. Now i'm in college and need game!!!! I found out the style I can adapt. Here it is...... I CAN PLAY INNOCENT (girls always think I am) , I CAN BE PRIVATE, I LOOK SERIOUS SMART & QUIET (for some reason, girls always think I'm smart). So is there n e 1 out there that can give me some ways to use these characteristics to my advantage? I need to develop my style.... I'm thinking about going downtown sometime and approaching women. N E pointers on that too?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
My DJ style.........
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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My arm chair theory (ymmv):
Dont just look smart and serious, become smart. Read a lot of different things and know a lot of different things.
Hangout in bookstores and other places where being smart and serious is an advantage. Talk to your prey about what she's reading. Become a true observationist. While your sitting around looking all innocent, serious, and smart pick up on things about women that attract you.
Approach, approach, and approach. Quiet men rarely get the girl, after all it is our job to hunt.
I'm not sure if this is what your looking for?
Dont just look smart and serious, become smart. Read a lot of different things and know a lot of different things.
Hangout in bookstores and other places where being smart and serious is an advantage. Talk to your prey about what she's reading. Become a true observationist. While your sitting around looking all innocent, serious, and smart pick up on things about women that attract you.
Approach, approach, and approach. Quiet men rarely get the girl, after all it is our job to hunt.
I'm not sure if this is what your looking for?
I can play smart, I know how to do it. I just don't like books but I can really sound smart if I wanted to. Maybe I am smart and just underestimate myself because I compare myself 2 nerds.......................I am smart, now that I think about it. I am smart... I am smart... I am smart... OK..... thankfully I've figured out that I am smart.... but in an intellectual way.... I'm not street smart though and that is very important also
Uh... be exciting? Be unpredictable... make them feel safe... and uhhh... make them smile... show them a good time... touch them when they excite you... touch them when you make a joke about them... uhh, let's see... say some funny **** every once in a while, usually something outragious. I think you'll be good.
You can be smart, or dumb as rocks. If you know how to entertain them while exciting them, then you're golden.
You can be smart, or dumb as rocks. If you know how to entertain them while exciting them, then you're golden.
for some reason, girls always think I'm smart).
not to knock on you man but thats kinda insulting yourself there haha
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Are u asian?Originally posted by omizzi
currently I have no game mainly because I had a 2yr relationship so that put me behind. Now i'm in college and need game!!!! I found out the style I can adapt. Here it is...... I CAN PLAY INNOCENT (girls always think I am) , I CAN BE PRIVATE, I LOOK SERIOUS SMART & QUIET (for some reason, girls always think I'm smart). So is there n e 1 out there that can give me some ways to use these characteristics to my advantage? I need to develop my style.... I'm thinking about going downtown sometime and approaching women. N E pointers on that too?