currently I have no game mainly because I had a 2yr relationship so that put me behind. Now i'm in college and need game!!!! I found out the style I can adapt. Here it is...... I CAN PLAY INNOCENT (girls always think I am) , I CAN BE PRIVATE, I LOOK SERIOUS SMART & QUIET (for some reason, girls always think I'm smart). So is there n e 1 out there that can give me some ways to use these characteristics to my advantage? I need to develop my style.... I'm thinking about going downtown sometime and approaching women. N E pointers on that too?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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My arm chair theory (ymmv):
Dont just look smart and serious, become smart. Read a lot of different things and know a lot of different things.
Hangout in bookstores and other places where being smart and serious is an advantage. Talk to your prey about what she's reading. Become a true observationist. While your sitting around looking all innocent, serious, and smart pick up on things about women that attract you.
Approach, approach, and approach. Quiet men rarely get the girl, after all it is our job to hunt.
I'm not sure if this is what your looking for?
Dont just look smart and serious, become smart. Read a lot of different things and know a lot of different things.
Hangout in bookstores and other places where being smart and serious is an advantage. Talk to your prey about what she's reading. Become a true observationist. While your sitting around looking all innocent, serious, and smart pick up on things about women that attract you.
Approach, approach, and approach. Quiet men rarely get the girl, after all it is our job to hunt.
I'm not sure if this is what your looking for?
I can play smart, I know how to do it. I just don't like books but I can really sound smart if I wanted to. Maybe I am smart and just underestimate myself because I compare myself 2 nerds.......................I am smart, now that I think about it. I am smart... I am smart... I am smart... OK..... thankfully I've figured out that I am smart.... but in an intellectual way.... I'm not street smart though and that is very important also
Uh... be exciting? Be unpredictable... make them feel safe... and uhhh... make them smile... show them a good time... touch them when they excite you... touch them when you make a joke about them... uhh, let's see... say some funny **** every once in a while, usually something outragious. I think you'll be good.
You can be smart, or dumb as rocks. If you know how to entertain them while exciting them, then you're golden.
You can be smart, or dumb as rocks. If you know how to entertain them while exciting them, then you're golden.
for some reason, girls always think I'm smart).
not to knock on you man but thats kinda insulting yourself there haha
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Are u asian?Originally posted by omizzi
currently I have no game mainly because I had a 2yr relationship so that put me behind. Now i'm in college and need game!!!! I found out the style I can adapt. Here it is...... I CAN PLAY INNOCENT (girls always think I am) , I CAN BE PRIVATE, I LOOK SERIOUS SMART & QUIET (for some reason, girls always think I'm smart). So is there n e 1 out there that can give me some ways to use these characteristics to my advantage? I need to develop my style.... I'm thinking about going downtown sometime and approaching women. N E pointers on that too?