currently I have no game mainly because I had a 2yr relationship so that put me behind. Now i'm in college and need game!!!! I found out the style I can adapt. Here it is...... I CAN PLAY INNOCENT (girls always think I am) , I CAN BE PRIVATE, I LOOK SERIOUS SMART & QUIET (for some reason, girls always think I'm smart). So is there n e 1 out there that can give me some ways to use these characteristics to my advantage? I need to develop my style.... I'm thinking about going downtown sometime and approaching women. N E pointers on that too?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
My DJ style.........
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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My arm chair theory (ymmv):
Dont just look smart and serious, become smart. Read a lot of different things and know a lot of different things.
Hangout in bookstores and other places where being smart and serious is an advantage. Talk to your prey about what she's reading. Become a true observationist. While your sitting around looking all innocent, serious, and smart pick up on things about women that attract you.
Approach, approach, and approach. Quiet men rarely get the girl, after all it is our job to hunt.
I'm not sure if this is what your looking for?
Dont just look smart and serious, become smart. Read a lot of different things and know a lot of different things.
Hangout in bookstores and other places where being smart and serious is an advantage. Talk to your prey about what she's reading. Become a true observationist. While your sitting around looking all innocent, serious, and smart pick up on things about women that attract you.
Approach, approach, and approach. Quiet men rarely get the girl, after all it is our job to hunt.
I'm not sure if this is what your looking for?
I can play smart, I know how to do it. I just don't like books but I can really sound smart if I wanted to. Maybe I am smart and just underestimate myself because I compare myself 2 nerds.......................I am smart, now that I think about it. I am smart... I am smart... I am smart... OK..... thankfully I've figured out that I am smart.... but in an intellectual way.... I'm not street smart though and that is very important also
Uh... be exciting? Be unpredictable... make them feel safe... and uhhh... make them smile... show them a good time... touch them when they excite you... touch them when you make a joke about them... uhh, let's see... say some funny **** every once in a while, usually something outragious. I think you'll be good.
You can be smart, or dumb as rocks. If you know how to entertain them while exciting them, then you're golden.
You can be smart, or dumb as rocks. If you know how to entertain them while exciting them, then you're golden.
for some reason, girls always think I'm smart).
not to knock on you man but thats kinda insulting yourself there haha
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Are u asian?Originally posted by omizzi
currently I have no game mainly because I had a 2yr relationship so that put me behind. Now i'm in college and need game!!!! I found out the style I can adapt. Here it is...... I CAN PLAY INNOCENT (girls always think I am) , I CAN BE PRIVATE, I LOOK SERIOUS SMART & QUIET (for some reason, girls always think I'm smart). So is there n e 1 out there that can give me some ways to use these characteristics to my advantage? I need to develop my style.... I'm thinking about going downtown sometime and approaching women. N E pointers on that too?