Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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my dj plan did not go smooth

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i met this girl a month ago, we went on a few friendly dates (WARNING FRIENDS ZONE) :kick:

today i tried to be different
- i was making her smile/laugh with my dumb jokes
- i rubbed/touched her feet where she injured
- i asked her to be strong/faithful instead of asking for my advice
- i even mentioned her minor hairy legs does not look good in the summer (LOL she explained that she got the hair recently)
- she always smile and looking at me directly while talking
- i asked if she has any lady friends could introduce to me (a sign of me being single and looking!?!?)
- when she talks about other guys, i always change subject
- i ignored her when she really wants my attention and talked to my other friends
- i brought her to a nice lake and she didn't want to spend time there. i told her she is boring and unadventurous
- she called me an hour ago but i didn't feel like pick up. should i give her a call tomorrow?

i need some advice on how to improve
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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averagechan said:
- i was making her smile/laugh with my dumb jokes good sign I guess
- i rubbed/touched her feet where she injured did you touch her anywhere else? or at any other time? use kino whenever possible
- i asked her to be strong/faithful instead of asking for my adviceok...
- i even mentioned her minor hairy legs does not look good in the summer (LOL she explained that she got the hair recently)if this was an attempt at a neg you failed, it's not good to insult a woman like that, especially their APPEARANCE
- she always smile and looking at me directly while talking good sign I guess
- i asked if she has any lady friends could introduce to me (a sign of me being single and looking!?!?) and what did she say? hook up with these girls to make her jealous
- when she talks about other guys, i always change subject good
- i ignored her when she really wants my attention and talked to my other friends good I suppose, but try to make sure you give other GIRLS attention when possible
- i brought her to a nice lake and she didn't want to spend time there. i told her she is boring and unadventurous ok...
- she called me an hour ago but i didn't feel like pick up. should i give her a call tomorrow? you're overanalyzing. If she is attracted it shouldn't really matter at all
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