"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i met this girl a month ago, we went on a few friendly dates (WARNING FRIENDS ZONE) :kick:

today i tried to be different
- i was making her smile/laugh with my dumb jokes
- i rubbed/touched her feet where she injured
- i asked her to be strong/faithful instead of asking for my advice
- i even mentioned her minor hairy legs does not look good in the summer (LOL she explained that she got the hair recently)
- she always smile and looking at me directly while talking
- i asked if she has any lady friends could introduce to me (a sign of me being single and looking!?!?)
- when she talks about other guys, i always change subject
- i ignored her when she really wants my attention and talked to my other friends
- i brought her to a nice lake and she didn't want to spend time there. i told her she is boring and unadventurous
- she called me an hour ago but i didn't feel like pick up. should i give her a call tomorrow?

i need some advice on how to improve
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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averagechan said:
- i was making her smile/laugh with my dumb jokes good sign I guess
- i rubbed/touched her feet where she injured did you touch her anywhere else? or at any other time? use kino whenever possible
- i asked her to be strong/faithful instead of asking for my adviceok...
- i even mentioned her minor hairy legs does not look good in the summer (LOL she explained that she got the hair recently)if this was an attempt at a neg you failed, it's not good to insult a woman like that, especially their APPEARANCE
- she always smile and looking at me directly while talking good sign I guess
- i asked if she has any lady friends could introduce to me (a sign of me being single and looking!?!?) and what did she say? hook up with these girls to make her jealous
- when she talks about other guys, i always change subject good
- i ignored her when she really wants my attention and talked to my other friends good I suppose, but try to make sure you give other GIRLS attention when possible
- i brought her to a nice lake and she didn't want to spend time there. i told her she is boring and unadventurous ok...
- she called me an hour ago but i didn't feel like pick up. should i give her a call tomorrow? you're overanalyzing. If she is attracted it shouldn't really matter at all
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