"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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my dad's a moron.

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aright, so after church i was sittin inside the suv with my driver. (i dont drive myself on sundays to church)

so anyway, my father approaches the suv with a girl and her family, so out of respect. my father commands me to get her #. i whip out my mobile phone and ask for her #.

she gladly gives her #. thing is, i only did this outta respect. i didnt wanna get this girl's #...

i just did it because she was standing there expecting me to ask her her #.

so now she is expecting me to call or whatever. my dad and her parents are good friends and they expect me to "go out with her"

so basically, our parents set us up on a date. :rolleyes:

so now im ****ed.. lol, i dont know.. if i dont call her or message her or whatever, she might get hurt.

ofcourse her parents will ask her, "has he called you yet? blah blah.."

come on, ill end up hurting this girl. my idea would be just putting her in the LJBF, but our parents are putting alot of pressure into putting us 2 together.. like, what the hell?

alot has been going on lately. i feel stressed out.. lmao but its all good. what should i do in this situation?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Your best bet is to date her, fu(k her, and then dump her. (LJBF her)
 

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If you act AFC she might like it. :p If you don't - she might like it.

I hate it when parents try to mate me with someone. They tried, a few scandals occured and now they ask if I have the hots for a girl before they try.
 

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Originally posted by NoBull
Your best bet is to date her, fu(k her, and then dump her. (LJBF her)
lol.. ****ing & dumping.. then LJBF'ding a family's friend's daughter... from church.. seriously.. that's ****ed up! :D
 

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Originally posted by Ice Cold
If you act AFC she might like it. :p If you don't - she might like it.

I hate it when parents try to mate me with someone. They tried, a few scandals occured and now they ask if I have the hots for a girl before they try.
so true. i have a feeling she's like me either way. :|
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Here's what I would do

Actually go out with her and have fun. If you don't like her at all. LJBF her or if you like her you could get into a relationship. That way you don't embarres(sp.) her, the family, or your dad. It is probably a win-win on both sides. Think of it as a testing area(DJ skills because everywhere is success because it will help you out in the long run). Whats the worst that could happen you get rid of the problem with no one getting hurt.

Just my $0.02
 

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I did got rid of one though:

Topics of discussion:

1) Why one motherboard is so much better than another
2) How much Fraser is better than Tyson
3) How you loved to put frogs into a restaurant's soup...

but she might still like you . ;)
 

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Originally posted by Ice Cold
I did got rid of one though:

Topics of discussion:

1) Why one motherboard is so much better than another
2) How much Fraser is better than Tyson
3) How you loved to put frogs into a restaurant's soup...

but she might still like you . ;)
Lol..
 
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