"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My dad and yours...

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oscarxp25

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On the process of changing my prespective on the world around me so I can become a DJ, I looked at my father. My dad is kind of a push over and I believe that this is where I got my AFC influence from. When I say it is his fault in my head, I get mad at myself and guilty because besides that he is an amazing man. He gave me a great home, life, provided me with education and has a great sense of humor. When I was little, I use to love being around him cause he pulled humor out of every situation and we would laugh.

How are your dads fellow AFC's?

Is it wrong to be a bit angry at him?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ChrizZ

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Well, my dad is an afc in every way. He doesn´t stand up for himself, has no sense of humor and is very strict and takes everything serious. In fact I´ve never seen him laugh.
Me however, I´m the total opposite of him...
 
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Oscar, i think this happens to everyone at some point of time. I was pissed off on my dad at one point too, then i learned to stop concentrating on his faults and just thought of the good times we have shared together, his good qualities, the luxuries he has provided me with, the way he taught me to deal with life. Just accept him as he is, afterall nobody is perfect.... No need to blame him for everything
 
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Well, my dad is a complete drunk so I think you guys have it good. I don't blame him though as it doesn't do me any good. Brian Tracy said something about forgiving and forgetting all the wrong you've sufferred so you can move on and I agree with him completely. Your outer world reflects your inner world so there's no point in harboring these negative feelings.
 
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