"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My dad and yours...

oscarxp25

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On the process of changing my prespective on the world around me so I can become a DJ, I looked at my father. My dad is kind of a push over and I believe that this is where I got my AFC influence from. When I say it is his fault in my head, I get mad at myself and guilty because besides that he is an amazing man. He gave me a great home, life, provided me with education and has a great sense of humor. When I was little, I use to love being around him cause he pulled humor out of every situation and we would laugh.

How are your dads fellow AFC's?

Is it wrong to be a bit angry at him?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ChrizZ

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Well, my dad is an afc in every way. He doesn´t stand up for himself, has no sense of humor and is very strict and takes everything serious. In fact I´ve never seen him laugh.
Me however, I´m the total opposite of him...
 

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Oscar, i think this happens to everyone at some point of time. I was pissed off on my dad at one point too, then i learned to stop concentrating on his faults and just thought of the good times we have shared together, his good qualities, the luxuries he has provided me with, the way he taught me to deal with life. Just accept him as he is, afterall nobody is perfect.... No need to blame him for everything
 

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Well, my dad is a complete drunk so I think you guys have it good. I don't blame him though as it doesn't do me any good. Brian Tracy said something about forgiving and forgetting all the wrong you've sufferred so you can move on and I agree with him completely. Your outer world reflects your inner world so there's no point in harboring these negative feelings.
 
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