"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
My cousin is a Don Juan.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Who said it was suppose to? It's more of an overall look at how some of histories most powerful rulers/thinkers conquered and overcame trials and tribulations. It looks more at the mindset one should have and keep to achieve more.garruk said:
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It's not the getting caught looking at women that's bad. It's getting caught looking at the wrong parts that's bad.SeymourCake said:
At the beginning on your interaction with any woman, DO NOT STARE AT HER BREASTS OR ASS. Women hate being looked at as "sex objects" (well, at least in the beginning -- yes, I know, women: they're nuts!
). Look only into her eyes. I don't care if she has the biggest set of knockers you've seen in real life and she's wearing a really low-cut blouse, you're only gonna look into her eyes.
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I didn't ask my cousin for exactly why it was bad in his experience. He said you have to train your eyes to look peripherally. He always scopes out the situation VERY, VERY carefully before coming up with a game-plan and doing anything and claims to be very good at reading people. He just tells me that he has mainly negative experiences when he stares. He didn't say that he looked at any particular body part when he stared.SeymourCake said:
I can speculate that it looks more spontaneous if you don't come across like you are mentally stalking a girl and then over-analyzing and having her know your mind is on her -- and they are more likely to react positively if you actually do approach without staring.
But, take it with a grain of salt. After all, he has got most of his game from being high on weed. He also says that if I'm "tipsy" with alcohol, then that can also help my game. What are you going to say to something like that? Throw away the Don Juan bible, and all seduction concepts out the window, and simply take weed and you'll get all the answers since your mind will "get-it" if you are high?
My cousin claims he is good at manipulating women, and he will use them and dump them while getting them to suck his c0ck. He only has sex in relationships and is not out to sex women. He claimed that he got most of his knowlege about the psychology of women and how they work from being high on weed. Everything else didn't work because he said the mind only a small percentage of information that comes through it. You need a drug enhancement to get the other 90% so things start clicking.
For him, weed did it. He gained social skills, people skills, know all about women by taking a joint. (Seems he was a former drug dealer and is either easing his conscience by saying weed is illegal because there is so much variety of plants (unlike tobacco) and the government can't regulate it as they simply can't control it which is why they made it illegal. It is not psysiologically addictive, just psychologically addictive -- perhaps like porn is?)
However, I won't sell my soul for any knowledge like that and I'm completely drug free and will never take a drug -- I just don't go there. I find it hard to believe if someone want's to be successful with women all they have to do is take a joint. That's stupid.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.