You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Who said it was suppose to? It's more of an overall look at how some of histories most powerful rulers/thinkers conquered and overcame trials and tribulations. It looks more at the mindset one should have and keep to achieve more.garruk said:whats the deal with 48 laws of power?
ive read that before and i dont see much that has to do with women in it.
It's not the getting caught looking at women that's bad. It's getting caught looking at the wrong parts that's bad.SeymourCake said:Can someone here explain why getting caught looking at a particular women is bad?
I didn't ask my cousin for exactly why it was bad in his experience. He said you have to train your eyes to look peripherally. He always scopes out the situation VERY, VERY carefully before coming up with a game-plan and doing anything and claims to be very good at reading people. He just tells me that he has mainly negative experiences when he stares. He didn't say that he looked at any particular body part when he stared.SeymourCake said:Can someone here explain why getting caught looking at a particular women is bad?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.