"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My cousin is a Don Juan.

garruk

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whats the deal with 48 laws of power?

ive read that before and i dont see much that has to do with women in it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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garruk said:
whats the deal with 48 laws of power?

ive read that before and i dont see much that has to do with women in it.
Who said it was suppose to? It's more of an overall look at how some of histories most powerful rulers/thinkers conquered and overcame trials and tribulations. It looks more at the mindset one should have and keep to achieve more.
 

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Can someone here explain why getting caught looking at a particular women is bad?
 

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SeymourCake said:
Can someone here explain why getting caught looking at a particular women is bad?
It's not the getting caught looking at women that's bad. It's getting caught looking at the wrong parts that's bad.

At the beginning on your interaction with any woman, DO NOT STARE AT HER BREASTS OR ASS. Women hate being looked at as "sex objects" (well, at least in the beginning -- yes, I know, women: they're nuts! ;)). Look only into her eyes. I don't care if she has the biggest set of knockers you've seen in real life and she's wearing a really low-cut blouse, you're only gonna look into her eyes.
 

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SeymourCake said:
Can someone here explain why getting caught looking at a particular women is bad?
I didn't ask my cousin for exactly why it was bad in his experience. He said you have to train your eyes to look peripherally. He always scopes out the situation VERY, VERY carefully before coming up with a game-plan and doing anything and claims to be very good at reading people. He just tells me that he has mainly negative experiences when he stares. He didn't say that he looked at any particular body part when he stared.

I can speculate that it looks more spontaneous if you don't come across like you are mentally stalking a girl and then over-analyzing and having her know your mind is on her -- and they are more likely to react positively if you actually do approach without staring.

But, take it with a grain of salt. After all, he has got most of his game from being high on weed. He also says that if I'm "tipsy" with alcohol, then that can also help my game. What are you going to say to something like that? Throw away the Don Juan bible, and all seduction concepts out the window, and simply take weed and you'll get all the answers since your mind will "get-it" if you are high?

My cousin claims he is good at manipulating women, and he will use them and dump them while getting them to suck his c0ck. He only has sex in relationships and is not out to sex women. He claimed that he got most of his knowlege about the psychology of women and how they work from being high on weed. Everything else didn't work because he said the mind only a small percentage of information that comes through it. You need a drug enhancement to get the other 90% so things start clicking.

For him, weed did it. He gained social skills, people skills, know all about women by taking a joint. (Seems he was a former drug dealer and is either easing his conscience by saying weed is illegal because there is so much variety of plants (unlike tobacco) and the government can't regulate it as they simply can't control it which is why they made it illegal. It is not psysiologically addictive, just psychologically addictive -- perhaps like porn is?)

However, I won't sell my soul for any knowledge like that and I'm completely drug free and will never take a drug -- I just don't go there. I find it hard to believe if someone want's to be successful with women all they have to do is take a joint. That's stupid.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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