"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
My cousin is a Don Juan.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Who said it was suppose to? It's more of an overall look at how some of histories most powerful rulers/thinkers conquered and overcame trials and tribulations. It looks more at the mindset one should have and keep to achieve more.garruk said:
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It's not the getting caught looking at women that's bad. It's getting caught looking at the wrong parts that's bad.SeymourCake said:
At the beginning on your interaction with any woman, DO NOT STARE AT HER BREASTS OR ASS. Women hate being looked at as "sex objects" (well, at least in the beginning -- yes, I know, women: they're nuts!
). Look only into her eyes. I don't care if she has the biggest set of knockers you've seen in real life and she's wearing a really low-cut blouse, you're only gonna look into her eyes.
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I didn't ask my cousin for exactly why it was bad in his experience. He said you have to train your eyes to look peripherally. He always scopes out the situation VERY, VERY carefully before coming up with a game-plan and doing anything and claims to be very good at reading people. He just tells me that he has mainly negative experiences when he stares. He didn't say that he looked at any particular body part when he stared.SeymourCake said:
I can speculate that it looks more spontaneous if you don't come across like you are mentally stalking a girl and then over-analyzing and having her know your mind is on her -- and they are more likely to react positively if you actually do approach without staring.
But, take it with a grain of salt. After all, he has got most of his game from being high on weed. He also says that if I'm "tipsy" with alcohol, then that can also help my game. What are you going to say to something like that? Throw away the Don Juan bible, and all seduction concepts out the window, and simply take weed and you'll get all the answers since your mind will "get-it" if you are high?
My cousin claims he is good at manipulating women, and he will use them and dump them while getting them to suck his c0ck. He only has sex in relationships and is not out to sex women. He claimed that he got most of his knowlege about the psychology of women and how they work from being high on weed. Everything else didn't work because he said the mind only a small percentage of information that comes through it. You need a drug enhancement to get the other 90% so things start clicking.
For him, weed did it. He gained social skills, people skills, know all about women by taking a joint. (Seems he was a former drug dealer and is either easing his conscience by saying weed is illegal because there is so much variety of plants (unlike tobacco) and the government can't regulate it as they simply can't control it which is why they made it illegal. It is not psysiologically addictive, just psychologically addictive -- perhaps like porn is?)
However, I won't sell my soul for any knowledge like that and I'm completely drug free and will never take a drug -- I just don't go there. I find it hard to believe if someone want's to be successful with women all they have to do is take a joint. That's stupid.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.