"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alright, ever since I made the change from AFC to (quasi) PUA there's this one girl who I have no interest in (well some, she's about an 8/10 but a freshman and I'm a senior) who tells me she likes me ALL the time and since i am a recovering AFC I get such a rush and ego boost from it, so I lead her on while KNOWING that I'm not going to act on it. I don't feel like I can stop and I feel F***ed up that I'm doing this to her because girls used to do it to me and I hated it, so I feel like SUCh a dang hypocrite.

Any advice on what I should do?
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by teencraft
Any advice on what I should do?
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This choice has to come from within. Look within yourself, what would the REAL YOU do. Judging by the vibe of your post, im guessing the authentic you wouldn't do this to the girl but maybe the fake you (the one that wants to look "cool") would do so.

I have found that acting on your authentic self is always more fulfilling.
 
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Alright thanks bro. I think i'm just going to tell her straight up that I don't like her and don't see myself with her.

Or maybe I'll just AFC the crap out of her until SHE rejects ME!
 
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Originally posted by teencraft
Or maybe I'll just AFC the crap out of her until SHE rejects ME!
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your better off to just tell her no, cause this will leave you feeling a little empty. make sure you dont want to hook up with her tho, cause if you only dont like her cause she likes you so obviously then you will want her as soon as shes gone
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I would if she wasn't a freshman.
 
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