"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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teencraft

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Alright, ever since I made the change from AFC to (quasi) PUA there's this one girl who I have no interest in (well some, she's about an 8/10 but a freshman and I'm a senior) who tells me she likes me ALL the time and since i am a recovering AFC I get such a rush and ego boost from it, so I lead her on while KNOWING that I'm not going to act on it. I don't feel like I can stop and I feel F***ed up that I'm doing this to her because girls used to do it to me and I hated it, so I feel like SUCh a dang hypocrite.

Any advice on what I should do?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by teencraft
Any advice on what I should do?
This choice has to come from within. Look within yourself, what would the REAL YOU do. Judging by the vibe of your post, im guessing the authentic you wouldn't do this to the girl but maybe the fake you (the one that wants to look "cool") would do so.

I have found that acting on your authentic self is always more fulfilling.
 

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Alright thanks bro. I think i'm just going to tell her straight up that I don't like her and don't see myself with her.

Or maybe I'll just AFC the crap out of her until SHE rejects ME!
 

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Originally posted by teencraft
Or maybe I'll just AFC the crap out of her until SHE rejects ME!
your better off to just tell her no, cause this will leave you feeling a little empty. make sure you dont want to hook up with her tho, cause if you only dont like her cause she likes you so obviously then you will want her as soon as shes gone
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I would if she wasn't a freshman.
 
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