“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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teencraft

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Alright, ever since I made the change from AFC to (quasi) PUA there's this one girl who I have no interest in (well some, she's about an 8/10 but a freshman and I'm a senior) who tells me she likes me ALL the time and since i am a recovering AFC I get such a rush and ego boost from it, so I lead her on while KNOWING that I'm not going to act on it. I don't feel like I can stop and I feel F***ed up that I'm doing this to her because girls used to do it to me and I hated it, so I feel like SUCh a dang hypocrite.

Any advice on what I should do?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by teencraft
Any advice on what I should do?
This choice has to come from within. Look within yourself, what would the REAL YOU do. Judging by the vibe of your post, im guessing the authentic you wouldn't do this to the girl but maybe the fake you (the one that wants to look "cool") would do so.

I have found that acting on your authentic self is always more fulfilling.
 

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Alright thanks bro. I think i'm just going to tell her straight up that I don't like her and don't see myself with her.

Or maybe I'll just AFC the crap out of her until SHE rejects ME!
 

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Originally posted by teencraft
Or maybe I'll just AFC the crap out of her until SHE rejects ME!
your better off to just tell her no, cause this will leave you feeling a little empty. make sure you dont want to hook up with her tho, cause if you only dont like her cause she likes you so obviously then you will want her as soon as shes gone
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I would if she wasn't a freshman.
 
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