"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
My challenge to you! (1 day to double your success)
- Thread starter Master of the Universe
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
FireOnTheMountain
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It's tomorrow, don't forget.
Wait, next week is Easter... Well, I'll see when I can get this done once the instructions are posted, heh.
masterpiece
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
The Mad Ghost
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Likewise,Master of the Universe said:
I have a terrible cold also, had to take 3 days off work and this weekend I'm going to be staying in. By the looks of things, this challenge has been rescheduled for a later date?
sharkbeat
Master Don Juan
If all we do is getting rejected, we don't need instructions, do we?
NSUballer
Senior Don Juan
One of my good friends told me something along these lines a while back.
I asked him "how do you go out solo and get girls?"
My friend always pulls girls no matter what, drunk or sober, at the grocery, mall, whatever. He now lives in Orange County after conquering the Big Easy.''
His answer was simple.
"Get super drunk and talk to every piece of hot pu ssy you see"
Ive done it super drunk, a little drunk and sober. All three are variables that can change the equation when talking to, and interacting with girls.
I like the challenge though. I'll have to think up some 'handicaps' for my self.
Hikapo
Don Juan
get rejected 10 times in a day??
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Belisarius
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gonna sub the thread!
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The Mad Ghost
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Okay, so OPERATION "GET REJECTED" officially launched for me today.
Didn't actually get the results I was looking for, I hit on this assistant at the cinema, she ended giving me her number (asking for it) whilst I specifically said I'm on a project for getting REJECTED, reject me. I just said I will tell her manager about her awful assistance, aha. She said she finishes at 2AM ....after the film, I went back and said chow, she asked to me to write my number down, I said get a pen then, she went outback and by then I jetted off to have a ciggerette ...................LOL.
Then a 2 set outside the mall, got into a debate about "Girls and NPD behavior" then her friend said she wants you're phone number, when again, I specifially said I was on a mission of getting REJECTED today.
Where is Master? ................WHERE ARE THE OFFICIAL CARDINAL RULES?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
HeyPachuco!
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.