"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My challenge to you! (1 day to double your success)

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Plinco

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Either I am doing this my own personal way (no challenge), or I'll be doing this next weekend. I'll do both.
 

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Here in Futureland (a.k.a. New Zealand) it's Saturday afternoon already. Not sure how well this would work on a Sunday, may have to do it next week.

Wait, next week is Easter... Well, I'll see when I can get this done once the instructions are posted, heh.
 

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Its Saturday night here to, so i presume this isn't happening now.Guess it will have to be done another week.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Master of the Universe said:
First of all, my apologies for not posting sooner, but I've been in bed with a bad cold these last few days.
Likewise,

I have a terrible cold also, had to take 3 days off work and this weekend I'm going to be staying in. By the looks of things, this challenge has been rescheduled for a later date?
 

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I will do this tonight. I'll be going to a club tonight and I will do it, unless it has to be a daygame.

If all we do is getting rejected, we don't need instructions, do we?
 

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RMM said:
Here in Futureland (a.k.a. New Zealand) it's Saturday afternoon already. Not sure how well this would work on a Sunday, may have to do it next week.

Wait, next week is Easter... Well, I'll see when I can get this done once the instructions are posted, heh.
Hey I'm from New Zealand as well! Haha. I'm still going to school though so might attempt this challenge in the school holidays. Sometime during the day in the city possibly..
 

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This is good.

One of my good friends told me something along these lines a while back.

I asked him "how do you go out solo and get girls?"

My friend always pulls girls no matter what, drunk or sober, at the grocery, mall, whatever. He now lives in Orange County after conquering the Big Easy.''

His answer was simple.

"Get super drunk and talk to every piece of hot pu ssy you see"

Ive done it super drunk, a little drunk and sober. All three are variables that can change the equation when talking to, and interacting with girls.

I like the challenge though. I'll have to think up some 'handicaps' for my self.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I have spring break until the 10th so I'm totally down.
 
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iv been off this forum for several months. The most ever really. I changed a LOT. However, I still am having major anxiety problems in big groups. I have gotten better at talkin to random people, girls alone, guys alone, etc. I can't be my new-self around my old friends:it feels awkward and im scared of messing up somehow so I revert back to my old-self. I still haven't really asked a girl for her number in a while...

gonna sub the thread!
 

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I just got in on this, so im glad that I haven't missed it yet. I'm in!
 

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FR: Operation Rejection Twists?

Okay, so OPERATION "GET REJECTED" officially launched for me today.

Didn't actually get the results I was looking for, I hit on this assistant at the cinema, she ended giving me her number (asking for it) whilst I specifically said I'm on a project for getting REJECTED, reject me. I just said I will tell her manager about her awful assistance, aha. She said she finishes at 2AM ....after the film, I went back and said chow, she asked to me to write my number down, I said get a pen then, she went outback and by then I jetted off to have a ciggerette ...................LOL.

Then a 2 set outside the mall, got into a debate about "Girls and NPD behavior" then her friend said she wants you're phone number, when again, I specifially said I was on a mission of getting REJECTED today.

Where is Master? ................WHERE ARE THE OFFICIAL CARDINAL RULES?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I am interested as well.

Actually really need this. Good challange.
 

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So much for any rules lol Just go out and approach-got it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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