"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Crazy Asian

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This swim season i want to get into the best shape of my life. I want to slighty reduce my body fat, and get bigger arms and chest. I can't bench though, so i guess i'll be using the machine.

Here are pics of me right now.
But i have a question first: what do i do if i want to keep the same size, but increase the power/strength? Cause bruce lee was tiny, but powerful, what kind of training do i do?


http://i135.photobucket.com/albums/q148/bolunye/DSC02325.jpg
http://i135.photobucket.com/albums/q148/bolunye/DSC02324.jpg
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Why can't you bench?

To keep the same size simply curb calories while training purely for strength and explosiveness.
 

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i can't bench cause i injured my shoulder.

so i just eat less? thats all?
 

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you eat enough calories to support your training but do not increase your bodyweight, yes.
 

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Bruce Lee did alot of strength conditioning, and little strength training. In Kung Fu- bulk is not needed. His disclipine(Jeet-Kune-Do) required lots of mental, and physical conditioning. JKD also requires alot of breathing, and balance exercises. Try taking an entire shower(including shampoo) standing on one leg.....without slipping.

Most of all, Bruce Lee's clean diet of low-glycemic carbs, and high protein- is why he looks so ripped. UC Berkeley did early bodyfat analysis on him(using water submersion), and he was a shredded 3% bodyfat, at his physical prime.

Going by your pix you just need alot of upper-body weight training. You need to first put meat on your bones. You should be alright then.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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