"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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my body needs more gangster vibes

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i can tell you i am confident of what I think, my decisions are often final, and im huge narcisst too

however, being an computer nerd, im affraid my body can give insecure vibes, even though im confident. for example i can talk to stranger women , look them in eyes without issues or even be talkactive during date where other person is clearly uninterested and contributes nothing to convo (i can also leave instantly).

probably among many things, tinder gave me that confidence towards women lol

but i can tell you my body still gives insecure vibes.




the only moment in my life when my body was giving Chad vibes was when i was complimeneted everyday, gymmaxing, dietmaxing,most liked person at work, and interacting with ton of positive people everday. but without that, my body will give insecure vibes, even though im confident
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Interesting. I've never tried Tinder before. You are saying it gives you confidence by using it? This is something that's been around for 5 or so years right?
 

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Interesting. I've never tried Tinder before. You are saying it gives you confidence by using it? This is something that's been around for 5 or so years right?
tinder will give depression to majority of men, and confidence to majority of women.


however if you endure bs coming from these picky creatures and still manage to have fun on date or get sex then it will increase your confidence towards women in long run


but any encounter with woman will give you that confidence so you dont have to use tinder which is just frustration powered white knight cuck machine
 

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but any encounter with woman will give you that confidence so you dont have to use tinder which is just frustration powered white knight cuck machine
The confidence you are talking about is maintaining a conversation with a woman when she's clearly not interested, or asking for cashier's number who clearly is rude to you and is rejecting you behind a line up of frustrated customers behind you? It is what you said in your initial post. I mean it sort of sounds a bit stoned to be that way. Is that a good confidence?
 

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The confidence you are talking about is maintaining a conversation with a woman when she's clearly not interested, or asking for cashier's number who clearly is rude to you and is rejecting you behind a line up of frustrated customers behind you? It is what you said in your initial post. I mean it sort of sounds a bit stoned to be that way. Is that a good confidence?
i am the best


the problem with us computer nerds is that computer usage seriously dehumanizes us making us give awkward and insecure vibes (even if we are confident) instead of gangster vibes because our brains are in analytical mode and not emotional.

Biggest gangsters in the world or rappers like eminem and 50cent give very gangsta vibes but they are so unadvanced technologically that they dont know how to send an email which eminem admitted
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i am the best


the problem with us computer nerds is that computer usage seriously dehumanizes us making us give awkward and insecure vibes (even if we are confident) instead of gangster vibes because our brains are in analytical mode and not emotional.

Biggest gangsters in the world or rappers like eminem and 50cent give very gangsta vibes but they are so unadvanced technologically that they dont know how to send an email which eminem admitted
Your a geek bro just own it find some weeb cosplay nerd girl and live life. Its not whats on you but whats in you. You cant fake gangster vibes because it will be a fraud. There is no faking it and being seen as genuine
 

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i can tell you i am confident of what I think, my decisions are often final, and im huge narcisst too

however, being an computer nerd, im affraid my body can give insecure vibes, even though im confident. for example i can talk to stranger women , look them in eyes without issues or even be talkactive during date where other person is clearly uninterested and contributes nothing to convo (i can also leave instantly).

probably among many things, tinder gave me that confidence towards women lol

but i can tell you my body still gives insecure vibes.




the only moment in my life when my body was giving Chad vibes was when i was complimeneted everyday, gymmaxing, dietmaxing,most liked person at work, and interacting with ton of positive people everday. but without that, my body will give insecure vibes, even though im confident
Come to Chicago home of the gangsters
 

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i can tell you i am confident of what I think, my decisions are often final, and im huge narcisst too

however, being an computer nerd, im affraid my body can give insecure vibes, even though im confident. for example i can talk to stranger women , look them in eyes without issues or even be talkactive during date where other person is clearly uninterested and contributes nothing to convo (i can also leave instantly).

probably among many things, tinder gave me that confidence towards women lol

but i can tell you my body still gives insecure vibes.




the only moment in my life when my body was giving Chad vibes was when i was complimeneted everyday, gymmaxing, dietmaxing,most liked person at work, and interacting with ton of positive people everday. but without that, my body will give insecure vibes, even though im confident
Go watch some john sonmez videos. He gives IT advice as well as pick up. The guy really buffed himself up
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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the only moment in my life when my body was giving Chad vibes was when i was complimeneted everyday, gymmaxing, dietmaxing,most liked person at work, and interacting with ton of positive people everday. but without that, my body will give insecure vibes, even though im confident
I had to read that twice. You are "confident" and yet you require constant validation from others to keep you from feeling insecure?? LOL. You need to work on your inner game. No amount of "gymmaxing" or "dietmaxing" is going to help you with that.
 

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Wear a do rag and get a neck tat. That is gangsta. Maybe a gold front toof
 

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said this before.. im 53yo, geek (security/hacker), paralyzed arm, I cant gym. I only get rejected by body image on a first look, I reject them for that. Inner game.. I get told that I am confident "I love your confidence"
Its not your body, its that you are not truly confident.
You are "confident" and yet you require constant validation from others to keep you from feeling insecure?? LOL.
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