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i can tell you i am confident of what I think, my decisions are often final, and im huge narcisst too

however, being an computer nerd, im affraid my body can give insecure vibes, even though im confident. for example i can talk to stranger women , look them in eyes without issues or even be talkactive during date where other person is clearly uninterested and contributes nothing to convo (i can also leave instantly).

probably among many things, tinder gave me that confidence towards women lol

but i can tell you my body still gives insecure vibes.




the only moment in my life when my body was giving Chad vibes was when i was complimeneted everyday, gymmaxing, dietmaxing,most liked person at work, and interacting with ton of positive people everday. but without that, my body will give insecure vibes, even though im confident
 

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Interesting. I've never tried Tinder before. You are saying it gives you confidence by using it? This is something that's been around for 5 or so years right?
 

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Interesting. I've never tried Tinder before. You are saying it gives you confidence by using it? This is something that's been around for 5 or so years right?
tinder will give depression to majority of men, and confidence to majority of women.


however if you endure bs coming from these picky creatures and still manage to have fun on date or get sex then it will increase your confidence towards women in long run


but any encounter with woman will give you that confidence so you dont have to use tinder which is just frustration powered white knight cuck machine
 

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but any encounter with woman will give you that confidence so you dont have to use tinder which is just frustration powered white knight cuck machine
The confidence you are talking about is maintaining a conversation with a woman when she's clearly not interested, or asking for cashier's number who clearly is rude to you and is rejecting you behind a line up of frustrated customers behind you? It is what you said in your initial post. I mean it sort of sounds a bit stoned to be that way. Is that a good confidence?
 

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The confidence you are talking about is maintaining a conversation with a woman when she's clearly not interested, or asking for cashier's number who clearly is rude to you and is rejecting you behind a line up of frustrated customers behind you? It is what you said in your initial post. I mean it sort of sounds a bit stoned to be that way. Is that a good confidence?
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the problem with us computer nerds is that computer usage seriously dehumanizes us making us give awkward and insecure vibes (even if we are confident) instead of gangster vibes because our brains are in analytical mode and not emotional.

Biggest gangsters in the world or rappers like eminem and 50cent give very gangsta vibes but they are so unadvanced technologically that they dont know how to send an email which eminem admitted
 

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the problem with us computer nerds is that computer usage seriously dehumanizes us making us give awkward and insecure vibes (even if we are confident) instead of gangster vibes because our brains are in analytical mode and not emotional.

Biggest gangsters in the world or rappers like eminem and 50cent give very gangsta vibes but they are so unadvanced technologically that they dont know how to send an email which eminem admitted
Your a geek bro just own it find some weeb cosplay nerd girl and live life. Its not whats on you but whats in you. You cant fake gangster vibes because it will be a fraud. There is no faking it and being seen as genuine
 

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i can tell you i am confident of what I think, my decisions are often final, and im huge narcisst too

however, being an computer nerd, im affraid my body can give insecure vibes, even though im confident. for example i can talk to stranger women , look them in eyes without issues or even be talkactive during date where other person is clearly uninterested and contributes nothing to convo (i can also leave instantly).

probably among many things, tinder gave me that confidence towards women lol

but i can tell you my body still gives insecure vibes.




the only moment in my life when my body was giving Chad vibes was when i was complimeneted everyday, gymmaxing, dietmaxing,most liked person at work, and interacting with ton of positive people everday. but without that, my body will give insecure vibes, even though im confident
Come to Chicago home of the gangsters
 

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i can tell you i am confident of what I think, my decisions are often final, and im huge narcisst too

however, being an computer nerd, im affraid my body can give insecure vibes, even though im confident. for example i can talk to stranger women , look them in eyes without issues or even be talkactive during date where other person is clearly uninterested and contributes nothing to convo (i can also leave instantly).

probably among many things, tinder gave me that confidence towards women lol

but i can tell you my body still gives insecure vibes.




the only moment in my life when my body was giving Chad vibes was when i was complimeneted everyday, gymmaxing, dietmaxing,most liked person at work, and interacting with ton of positive people everday. but without that, my body will give insecure vibes, even though im confident
Go watch some john sonmez videos. He gives IT advice as well as pick up. The guy really buffed himself up
 

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This isn't a body issue. Its in your mind and your not as confident as your post indicates. Work on it more so the your mind feeds your body.
 

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the only moment in my life when my body was giving Chad vibes was when i was complimeneted everyday, gymmaxing, dietmaxing,most liked person at work, and interacting with ton of positive people everday. but without that, my body will give insecure vibes, even though im confident
I had to read that twice. You are "confident" and yet you require constant validation from others to keep you from feeling insecure?? LOL. You need to work on your inner game. No amount of "gymmaxing" or "dietmaxing" is going to help you with that.
 

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Wear a do rag and get a neck tat. That is gangsta. Maybe a gold front toof
 

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said this before.. im 53yo, geek (security/hacker), paralyzed arm, I cant gym. I only get rejected by body image on a first look, I reject them for that. Inner game.. I get told that I am confident "I love your confidence"
Its not your body, its that you are not truly confident.
You are "confident" and yet you require constant validation from others to keep you from feeling insecure?? LOL.
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